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<p>What is true can never be false. What is false can sometimes seem true, but it can never be. Since falseness is inconsistent with itself, it has no foundation of truth to stand on. Yet what happens if what you regarded as truth does not pass this equation?</p>
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<p>What if I told you that you have more control over your experience than you realize and that it&#8217;s all a simple math equation that you already have the answer to? Would you solve it? Let&#8217;s talk spiritual math.</p>
<p>I will attempt to keep this article as simple as possible so that a non-Math person can understand and apply these spiritual math concepts.</p>
<p>I will also cite sources where you can go deeper into math principles if you so choose.</p>
<h2>What is Spiritual Math as opposed to regular Math?</h2>
<p>Short for Mathematics, Math is a universal language and a fundamental tool for understanding the physical world around us. It is the study of numbers, quantities, and shapes, and their relationships to one another.</p>
<p>Math is used to describe and model the behavior of natural phenomena, from the smallest particles in the universe to the largest structures in the cosmos. It is the foundation of science, technology, engineering, and finance, and plays a crucial role in almost every aspect of our daily lives.</p>
<p>Similarly, Spiritual Math is a term that refers to the use of mathematical concepts and principles in exploring spiritual or metaphysical ideas. It recognizes that math is not just a tool for understanding the physical world, but also has the potential to illuminate deeper truths about the nature of reality and our place in it.</p>
<p>Spiritual Math can involve the use of geometry, <a href="https://jclay.org/uses/genekeys">numerology</a>, and other mathematical techniques to explore concepts such as the interconnectedness of all things, the nature of consciousness, and the relationship between the material and spiritual realms.</p>
<p>It can be seen as a way to bridge the gap between science and spirituality and to provide a language for exploring the mysteries of the universe beyond what can be perceived through our physical senses.</p>
<p>Are you ready to add more to your life or would you simply like to remain equal to the negativity that seems to exist?</p>
<h2>0 and 1</h2>
<p>0 and 1 are the basis of all computing systems and operations, including circuitry. Often referred to as the binary number system, 1 and 0 represent two choices, which can be displayed in a myriad of ways&#8230;yes &amp; no, true &amp; false, on &amp; off, ok &amp; cancel. You get the idea.</p>
<p>I won&#8217;t get into the details of binary, but if you want to learn more, check this article on <a href="https://www.lifewire.com/how-to-read-binary-4692830" target="_blank" rel="noopener">How To Read Binary</a>.</p>
<p>As I said earlier, 1 and 0 can be used to represent true and false, which means only one of these numbers is true, 1.</p>
<p>0 does not exist. It&#8217;s imaginary.</p>
<p>Mathematically speaking, since zero is both nonpositive and its own square root, then zero can be considered imaginary.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;m speaking logically. If 1 represents true, then zero represents false.</p>
<p>They can never be equal. And if both existed equally, we would not.</p>
<p>What is true can never be false. What is false can sometimes seem true, but it can never be.</p>
<p>Since falseness is inconsistent with itself, it has no foundation of truth to stand on. It is imaginary.</p>
<p>Truth on the other hand, or 1, is always true no matter what.</p>
<p>This is the basis of spiritual math.</p>
<p>If something truly exists, it shares the same properties as 1 or as truth.</p>
<p>Now we can begin to understand the expressions, &#8220;All are 1&#8221; and &#8220;Everything is one.&#8221;</p>
<p>So what is 0 really?</p>
<p>0 is more like &#8220;not 1&#8221;.</p>
<p>For example, if 1 represents all that is right, good, true, holy, and magnificent, then what is its opposite?</p>
<p>It has no opposite, but more on that later.</p>
<p>For now, we&#8217;ll accept the usual representation of the opposition, which would be considered wrong, sinful, false, unholy, and weak.</p>
<p>So for example, if something is &#8220;not good&#8221;, many would say it&#8217;s bad or sinful.</p>
<p>In other words, &#8220;not good&#8221; is to sinful as &#8220;not 1&#8221; is to 0.</p>
<p>What should begin to be clear now is that what is &#8220;not&#8221; is not. “Not” is not real and you shouldn&#8217;t let the idea of what&#8217;s not real take up real space in your mind.</p>
<h2>The Introduction of 0</h2>
<p>Quick history lesson.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard to say exactly when the concept of 0 was introduced into the world&#8217;s mathematics. Just know it wasn&#8217;t there from the beginning.</p>
<p>Some say it was first introduced in India around 500 AD. Others say zero dates back to the 7th century in a manuscript called the Bakhshali manuscript that was eventually transmitted to the Islamic world, where it was further developed and eventually introduced to Europe in the 12th century. And still, others say zero was first recorded in Mesopotamia around the year 3 B.C.</p>
<p>Regardless of when it was first brought into awareness, zero has had a profound impact on the development of mathematics, as it enabled the creation of the decimal system, which is still used today.</p>
<p>The introduction of zero also paved the way for the development of algebra and calculus, which would later revolutionize the fields of science and engineering.</p>
<p>And as such, the concept of zero is now considered to be one of the most important contributions to human civilization, as it has had a profound impact on the way we understand and interact with the world around us.</p>
<p>All of this from a false/imaginary number.</p>
<p>Is this to say that algebra and calculus are also false? That&#8217;s not for me to say.<br />
I will say, however, applying this technique to the words above, we get some interesting combinations.</p>
<h2>Understanding &#8220;Not 1&#8221;</h2>
<p>To put this in full perspective, not 1 can be represented as:</p>
<ul>
<li>Not complete</li>
<li>Not good</li>
<li>Not truth</li>
<li>Not real</li>
<li>Not rich</li>
<li>Not life</li>
</ul>
<p>Or:</p>
<ul>
<li>Incomplete</li>
<li>Sinful</li>
<li>False</li>
<li>Imaginary</li>
<li>Poor</li>
<li>Death</li>
</ul>
<p>By making &#8220;not 1&#8221; a thing, many are able to react to it as if it is real and engage with this non-realness on a regular basis.</p>
<p>By this same logic, people are able to react to &#8220;not good&#8221; as if it were a real thing claiming that &#8220;sin is real&#8221;.</p>
<p>In the same way that the concept of zero has spawned algebra, calculus, engineering, science, and more&#8230;.the concept of sin or evil deeds has spawned sickness, death, judgment, mental illness, etc.</p>
<p>This may be a stretch, but then again, it may &#8220;not&#8221;.</p>
<p>That is the power of &#8220;not 1&#8221;. It forces you to look at what is not there and experience it as if it was.</p>
<h2>Understanding 1</h2>
<p>We see what &#8220;not 1&#8221; is, but what exactly is 1?</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the irony. 1 cannot be fully understood alone, which is also why it&#8217;s not good for man to be alone.</p>
<p>To really understand and know anything, you have to live it. And what better way than to live in oneness?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not possible to live in none-ness or zero-ness because then nothing would exist. But with oneness, all things are the same. I&#8217;ll explain.</p>
<p>Anything that means anything to you, you have given meaning to it.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll repeat. Anything that means anything to you, YOU have given meaning to it.</p>
<p>Now, look around you. From your body to the room that you&#8217;re in, you&#8217;ve given some sort of meaning and even value to it.</p>
<p>Without you giving the world meaning, it would in a sense to you be formless and void. A human body would just be clay and a building would just be sticks and stones.</p>
<p>Yet even those comparisons have meaning that you have also given.</p>
<p>Because of your core rootedness in truth, you have the ability to imagine and even use this imagination to project meaning onto that which has none.</p>
<h3>Living In Oneness</h3>
<p>When oneness is truly lived, you recognize that what is on the inside is also reflected/seen on the outside.</p>
<p>However, when oneness is falsely lived, what you see seems imbalanced or unequal.</p>
<p>The reason is that the oneness law is inescapable. <strong>It is what you are.</strong></p>
<p>Even in an imagined conflicting world of 1s and 0s, you still live in oneness because the laws &amp; rules you apply to others, you are also subjected to.</p>
<p>1 = 1. Always.</p>
<p>1 represents All. And within All lies even the possibility/illusion of not, or 0.</p>
<p>This is why you could judge someone as naive or ignorant when they don&#8217;t believe what you believe, and yet in this misbelief, they don&#8217;t share the consequence that would befall you, had you lived their beliefs.</p>
<p>This is also why you may perceive certain friends as lucky or able to get away with what you could never. Your perceived oneness within does equal another&#8217;s perceived oneness within. Each are mixed with a combination of 1s and 0s.</p>
<p>Even though neither of you may be living 100% aligned with truth, both of you are still experiencing aspects of the law of oneness in your own way.</p>
<p>So what is within always appears without.</p>
<h2>Opposite vs Equal</h2>
<p>You may have heard that you live in a world of duality. Binary language is a representation of duality meaning there are two sides to all. But as I said earlier, 1 has no opposite. This is because it has no other sides. It&#8217;s all-encompassing. 1 = 1 = 1 = 1 = 1, forever and ever.</p>
<p>Modern math represents opposite numbers as their negative counterpart. So it would claim that the opposite of 1 is -1.</p>
<p>However, -1 is also an imaginary number. It can&#8217;t be represented physically.</p>
<p>If an imaginary number is not real then it is equal to every other imaginary number in its not-realness.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s imaginary is equal to what&#8217;s imaginary.</p>
<p>To claim that something is opposite another is another matter indeed.</p>
<p>An opposite must be as powerful as the other to be considered a true opposite.</p>
<p>One wouldn&#8217;t judge another as their enemy unless they believe this person is as capable or even more capable than them.</p>
<p>Mathematically speaking, stating that 1 = 1 or 0 = 0 is a true representation of equal and opposite.</p>
<p>Saying that 1 ≠ 0 is not representing opposition or equality, but just stating the obvious.</p>
<p>So while you&#8217;re continuing to give parts of your world a negative meaning, recognize that these parts or circumstances should have no power over you because firstly, you&#8217;ve given meaning to it thus making you its maker. And secondly, what has no power or what has imaginary power shies away when in the presence of true power, you.</p>
<h2>1 Division</h2>
<p>Sounds like a singing group, huh?</p>
<p>Now that we understand the all-encompassing nature of 1, what would happen if 1 could be split?</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s divide.</p>
<p>Why divide? Because again, to truly understand something, you have to live it, being within it and it within you.</p>
<p>To keep it simple, we&#8217;ll divide 1 evenly.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll say 1 divided by 2.</p>
<p>Commonly in math, 1 divided by 2 is considered one half, but let&#8217;s use the symbol &#8230; ½.</p>
<p>But actually, it&#8217;s ½ + ½. The other half didn&#8217;t magically disappear. It&#8217;s just that for some reason, mathematicians were focused on the subset.</p>
<p>So now we have 2 equal parts of ½.</p>
<p>Since we know that 1 is considered good, let&#8217;s restate that. 1 is good.</p>
<p>Now we split 1 (or good) into 2.</p>
<p>You now have 2 parts good. Yet each one represents half of good.</p>
<p>If we took one of the halves and regarded it as whole, what is it made up as?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s still good because, from the perspective of all of good, it&#8217;s half of itself.</p>
<p>Some would even say it&#8217;s just half good. To which I would ask, then what&#8217;s the other half made up as?</p>
<p>This is where things get confusing to individual minds, similar to halved minds.</p>
<p>It believes that part of itself is missing or cut off simply because it chooses to be halved or not connected.</p>
<p>So instead of regarding itself as whole, it seeks another half.</p>
<p>Now it&#8217;s getting interesting.</p>
<p>But let&#8217;s say this ½ judges its other ½ as being bad.</p>
<p><strong>From the judgment of the first ½, this half now unknowingly sees itself as bad simply because, ½ = ½.</strong></p>
<p>And since what&#8217;s bad could never equal what&#8217;s good, the self-judged divides again to search for ½ good, but each half is halved making it a fourth, an eighth, a sixteenth, and so on.</p>
<p>Are you with me?</p>
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<h3>Plugging In Real Values</h3>
<p>Let&#8217;s look at this another way.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Good = ½Good + ½Good</p>
<p>If we subtract ½Good from both sides, we get&#8230;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Good &#8211; ½Good = ½Good</p>
<p>So:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">½Good = Good &#8211; ½Good</p>
<p>Since it&#8217;s getting confusing, let&#8217;s give these all names to simplify.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll name Good as Christ. The first ½Good would be Adam and the other ½Good would be Eve.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s list all the equations we can to represent this using basic math.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Christ = Adam + Eve<br />
Adam = Christ &#8211; Eve<br />
Eve = Christ &#8211; Adam<br />
Adam = Eve</p>
<p>Now Adam and Eve both feel incomplete. They&#8217;ve been cut off in a sense from each other. Yet from the perspective of Christ, nothing has been lost. Christ still has all parts of himself.</p>
<p>From the perspectives of Adam and Eve, something is not right.</p>
<p>So Adam attempts to join with Eve and the two feel good together.</p>
<p>Then Eve does something Adam does not agree with and he judges her as bad. But Adam equals Eve? So Adam has unknowingly or unconsciously judged himself as bad.</p>
<p>Since they are all that is, they still mix and mingle. They have two kids together.</p>
<p>From the perspective of Christ, nothing has been lost.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Christ = Adam + Eve + Child 1 + Child 2</p>
<p>It may seem like Christ has gained. This is true, but not in the way you think. The energy or value of Christ is still the same, however, the energy that makes up Christ has shifted and new possibilities are formed, but still all within the 1.</p>
<p>Now from the perspective of Adam, he may believe he&#8217;s greater than the others.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam &lt; Christ</p>
<p>Yet, Adam believes:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam &gt; Eve<br />
Adam &gt; Child 1<br />
Adam &gt; Child 2</p>
<p>But truly:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam = Eve</p>
<p>And now also:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam = Child 1<br />
Adam = Child 2</p>
<p>But because Adam believes he is greater, then he unknowingly or unconsciously made others greater than he in his mind. So to even the playing field or to even out the equation, he has thoughts of attempting to belittle the &#8220;others&#8221;, not realizing that they are also himself.</p>
<p>This cycle repeats and repeats for each.</p>
<p>Yet Christ is still a happy 1.</p>
<p>And within, the perceived individuals are not ready to accept that the sum of all its parts equals the whole.</p>
<p>In other words, you plus me plus everyone else in existence make up this oneness.</p>
<p>And since all the parts are equal, having a good life is as simple as recognizing the good in all. Because to judge one is to judge yourself.</p>
<p>To state that another way, since you&#8217;ve given meaning to all you see, you&#8217;re really only seeing yourself. And to then judge against what you see, would directly be judging against yourself.</p>
<h2>Bad Math or better yet &#8216;Not Math&#8217;</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s easy to believe that you&#8217;re greater than another because of a misinterpretation of the following equation.</p>
<p>Remember how:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Christ = Adam + Eve</p>
<p>Then to solve for Adam would be:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam = Christ &#8211; Eve</p>
<p>The misinterpretation comes from the above. Adam may feel that if he gets rid of Eve, then he will be equal to Christ.</p>
<p>But again remember that since Adam is equal to Eve, we can substitute Adam for Eve. So to represent this perceived equation accurately would be:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam = Christ &#8211; Adam</p>
<p>From Adam&#8217;s perspective, he would lose himself in the process.</p>
<p>But since 1 is always 1, Adam would only imagine that he&#8217;s lost himself.</p>
<p>Again, from the viewpoint of Christ, the equation is still balanced, we see that:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Christ = Adam + Adam</p>
<p>Going back to this equation and looking at it differently, we have:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam = Christ &#8211; Eve</p>
<p>Now Adam attempts to remove Eve and&#8230;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam &#8211; Eve = Christ &#8211; Eve &#8211; Eve</p>
<p>Since Adam equals Eve, we have:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">0 = Christ</p>
<p>Since Christ represents 1, we see how untrue this statement is:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">0 = 1</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t and it won&#8217;t. Yet that is what happens when you attempt to go against a fellow self.</p>
<h2><s>Takeaways</s> One</h2>
<p>What can be concluded from this?</p>
<ol>
<li>We truly are all connected.</li>
<li>If you judge me, you judge yourself.</li>
<li>If you praise me, you praise yourself.</li>
<li>Negativity has no power because it&#8217;s imaginary.</li>
<li>Division is impossible because all parts of the 1 still remain.</li>
<li>What I see has always just been me, so why don&#8217;t I start seeing through the eyes of the 1.</li>
</ol>
<p>If you&#8217;ve enjoyed this, <a href="https://jclay.org/gene-keys-review/">here&#8217;s another fun thing with numbers tailored to exactly who you are</a>.</p>
<p>Last, check out <a href="https://songwhip.com/jclay/123" target="_blank" rel="noopener">this rap song 123</a> which represents both the halved side and then the whole side as outlined in this article.</p>
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<p>Conflicting thoughts can be sneaky and be the foundation of the conflict we experience day to day. Learn to recognize these so that your thoughts will be more in harmony with each other.</p>
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<p>We all have conflicting thoughts. Well, I should say we all <b>keep</b> conflicting thoughts for the time being.</p>
<p>Conflicting thoughts are thoughts that are opposite in meaning, yet we believe them both.</p>
<p>Even defining it so plainly reveals how crazy it is to have these conflicting thoughts.</p>
<p>Yet every day we entertain one or more.</p>
<p>Some common conflicting thoughts include:</p>
<ul>
<li>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know why bad things happen to me&#8221; vs &#8220;I love drama&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;The mind controls the body&#8221; vs &#8220;my body is sick&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;People really are nice at heart&#8221; vs &#8220;people suck&#8221;</li>
</ul>
<p>The purpose of this article is not to list out all of your conflicting thoughts, but to help you live more in harmony with yourself.</p>
<p>This can be accomplished by first recognizing what your conflicting thoughts are. And secondly, by choosing just one (hopefully the thought aligned with truth).</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s jump in!</p>
<h2>Others will tell you</h2>
<p>We can sometimes become so wrapped up in our own ego that we become unconscious of what we actually believe, think, and say.</p>
<p>Luckily, we have mirrors (those around us) to remind us.</p>
<p>For whatever reason, people love proving others wrong and calling out their faults, especially kids.</p>
<p>So you&#8217;re surrounded by amazingly eager participants willing to show you your conflicting thoughts.</p>
<p>When confronted openly about these conflicting thoughts, there&#8217;s a tendency to react by directing anger toward the messenger.</p>
<p>But when you see the reality of this situation, you can understand that the messenger just did you a HUGE favor.</p>
<p>They have just brought to light some conflicting thoughts that you were unaware of.</p>
<p>At this moment you have a choice. You can defend your beliefs as if truth itself needs someone to fight for it. Or you can take a moment to reflect and see if there is some truth to what the person is revealing to you.</p>
<p>It takes practice, but you&#8217;ll get it.</p>
<h2>You find yourself feeling uneasy, angry, or sick</h2>
<p>Despite the common belief, <strong>sickness is not normal</strong>.</p>
<p>Seeing the above statement now is so blatantly obvious to me, but there was a time when it wasn&#8217;t. I believed that it was natural to get sick and that there was nothing I could do about it.</p>
<p>I believed that something was natural that could never be natural. It&#8217;s like living death, fighting peace, or lying for the truth&#8230;obvious conflicts that we&#8217;ve merged into one.</p>
<p>Since as so above, so below&#8230;what you believe inside is reflected outside.</p>
<p>In this case, <a href="https://jclay.org/physical-and-mental/">this inner mental conflict reveals itself as bodily conflict</a> reinforcing that the mind controls the body. Yet we sometimes believe that the body has a mind of its own. And it does. It&#8217;s yours. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f600.png" alt="😀" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
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<p>This conflict also reveals itself in anger and uneasiness.</p>
<p>You would only be angry if someone reveals something that goes both against your belief and for your belief.</p>
<p>For example, let&#8217;s say someone calls you stupid.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re content in your genius-ness, then you would brush off this attempt at an insult because it&#8217;s obviously absurd.</p>
<p>Yet if deep down you believe that you are stupid, then conflict or anger will arise. There&#8217;s conflict because you are trying to prove to others that you are smart without having truly accepted it for yourself.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s time to start using these perceived anger and/or sick times as triggers to practice seeing the miracle of moving toward a united mind.</p>
<h2>Being present with what you&#8217;re teaching/saying (the advice you give others)</h2>
<p>You are always teaching. You are always sharing. They are one and the same.</p>
<p>If for example, I say, &#8220;Eating chicken is bad for you.&#8221; You may be quick to teach or share why it is or isn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>We unconsciously do this. And by doing this unconsciously, we are setting up our own limits.</p>
<p>We are making the parameters for how we are to live. And if we don&#8217;t abide by these, conflict arises.</p>
<p>The conflict is there because you&#8217;ve set a rule yourself to live by, but you don&#8217;t live by it.</p>
<p>See how sneaky conflicting thoughts can be.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not just there. It&#8217;s in the debates you have.</p>
<p>You may be so wrapped up in being right, that you don&#8217;t realize you&#8217;re righting something that you never wanted for yourself while denying what you do.</p>
<p>Fortunately, the fix is the same.</p>
<p>Be present at this moment.</p>
<p>Observe your thoughts as you think them.</p>
<p>Observe your words as you speak them.</p>
<p>This also takes practice. But once it&#8217;s perfected, nothing will ever bother you again.</p>
<p>You will be in perfect harmony within yourself always.</p>
<h2>In conclusion</h2>
<p>On this harmonic journey, try not to get frustrated if you don&#8217;t always succeed at overcoming the conflict.</p>
<p>To get frustrated would be to make further disharmony (more conflicting thoughts).</p>
<p>No more!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a song of mine to help.</p>
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		<title>5 Books on Spirituality You Should Read</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Nov 2021 12:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Reading is more than just a pastime, it&#8217;s a great activity that can change your life. An article published by Aleteia emphasized that a good book is the key to [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>Reading is more than just a pastime, it&#8217;s a great activity that can change your life. An article published by <a href="https://aleteia.org/2020/09/18/reading-good-spiritual-books-is-essential-to-a-joyful-life/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Aleteia</a> emphasized that a good book is the key to leading a joy-filled life. Moreover, it was highlighted that reading books about spirituality can build your character and enlighten your soul.</p>
<p>As such, books are fundamental instruments for individuals who want to deepen their spirituality. In line with that, here are five books that can strengthen your sense of spirituality:</p>
<h2>A Course in Miracles</h2>
<p>A Course in Miracles was written by Helen Schucman in 1976, but it has been making waves across different spiritual practices decades after its first publication. A previous post entitled <a href="https://jclay.org/acim-rap/">The Top &#8220;A Course in Miracles (ACIM)&#8221; Inspired Rap/Hip-Hop Artists</a> emphasizes that this book is so life-changing that it&#8217;s influenced books, films, art pieces, and even rap.</p>
<p>A Course in Miracles has created such an impact because it opens people up to the greatest miracle of all: love. And through reading it, you can gain awareness of love&#8217;s presence and guide yourself towards a united spiritual purpose.</p>
<h2>The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment</h2>
<p>Spirituality teacher Eckhart Tolle is the genius behind this best-selling book that discusses the significance of the present moment. Recognizing how thinking about the past and the future can induce anxiety, Tolle wrote <a href="https://www.scribd.com/audiobook/237843984/The-Power-of-Now-A-Guide-to-Spiritual-Enlightenment" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment</a> to teach people how to embrace the present.</p>
<p>The book&#8217;s simple language, as well as the question and answer format, makes it easy for readers to ease themselves into a new state of mind. This makes it a very effective tool in embracing the now and getting connected to an indestructible essence of your being.</p>
<h2>The Untethered Soul</h2>
<p>If you&#8217;d like to know more about Buddhist principles, then <a href="https://amzn.to/3qOBshn" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Untethered Soul</a> is a good place to start. This book, which was written by Michael A. Singer, explores how the principle of the Middle Way can help you reach a peaceful state of mind.</p>
<p>Through simple and easy-to-follow language, Singer discusses how you can embrace your existence without any force. This philosophy will help you free yourself from any emotions and thoughts that may be weighing you down. By allowing things to just be, you can experience a more elevated and peaceful existence.</p>
<h2>Learned Optimism</h2>
<p>You can deepen your spirituality through the science-backed research studies covered in the book <a href="https://amzn.to/3CnCGT6" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Learned Optimism</a>. In this book, author Martin Seligman discusses the proven benefits of becoming an optimist, such as being more healthy, successful, and happy. Then, the renowned psychologist teaches his readers how to break bad habits and implement new strategies that can enhance their quality of life.</p>
<p>By embracing optimism through these strategies, you can develop a deeper appreciation and understanding of people, love, and life. This will help you serve a more enlightened purpose throughout the human experience.</p>
<h2>Real Magic: Creating Miracles in Everyday Life</h2>
<p>Best-selling author Dr. Wayne Dyer explores a different kind of magic in <a href="https://amzn.to/3Dtre9K" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Real Magic: Creating Miracles in Everyday Life</a>. This book discusses realistic strategies that can help you experience profound miracles.</p>
<p>While these miracles aren&#8217;t the ones you usually see in the movies, they are great life experiences that can help you get past perceptions that have been holding you back. This then allows you to reach a higher level of consciousness where you can experience blessings in your everyday life.</p>
<h2>Summary</h2>
<p>Through these five books, you can learn how to open yourself up to a deeper spiritual practice. It only goes to show that books are valuable tools of knowledge that can help you gain a deeper understanding of love, peace, optimism, miracles, and the present moment.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2021 11:36:53 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Have you ever wondered why you are here and what you are here to do?</p>
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<p>One of the most asked questions people ask themselves is, &#8220;Why am I here?&#8221;</p>
<p>Even asking yourself this question gives a hint toward the answer. In fact, &#8220;why am I here&#8221; answers itself. </p>
<p>To get to the question&#8217;s simplicity, we must pull back some layers of complexity.</p>
<p>I can just give you the answer now (or you can scroll down), but it won&#8217;t be accepted without first pulling back these layers.</p>
<h2>Understanding your Why</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s important that you understand why you&#8217;re asking this. The reason is that you may not really want the answer to this question, but to many other questions. </p>
<p>For now, let&#8217;s explore the two main reasons you may ask, &#8220;Why am I here?&#8221;</p>
<p>The first is out of pure curiosity. In this way, the answer does not really matter. It&#8217;s a question asked at the moment and then let go of in the next.</p>
<p>Surprisingly, when you let go of questions, answers come much faster as opposed to always asking questions.</p>
<p>And since you&#8217;re reading this article, chances are you still have questions.</p>
<p>The second main reason you may ask why you are here comes from a not-so-loving place.</p>
<p>Chances are you are bored with life, find it unfulfilling, and/or completely overwhelmed by it.</p>
<p>You want out!</p>
<p>This is not to be confused with wanting to die, you just want out of your current way of living.</p>
<p>Who would blame you? Not loving life is not living.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s kind of like undying&#8230;you aren&#8217;t dying, yet you won&#8217;t live.</p>
<p>But the fact that you&#8217;re asking this question is HUGE.</p>
<p>Asking, &#8220;Why am I here&#8221; shows signs of life and that you&#8217;re ready for change. </p>
<p>Embrace it and ask yourself again why you are here. </p>
<p>Then let the question go completely knowing deep down you&#8217;ll find your answer (hint: it&#8217;s below). </p>
<h2>Where is &#8220;here&#8221;?</h2>
<p>The &#8220;here&#8221; in the question is one of the most misunderstood parts because even you as the asker don&#8217;t really know what you&#8217;re asking. </p>
<p>For example, &#8220;here&#8221; could mean on earth, in this town, in this relationship, at this job, in this conversation, on this website, in this body, in this skin, at this party, in this time, etc. </p>
<p>You could think you&#8217;re asking for one of the above mentioned, but you&#8217;re really asking for another one of the above mentioned.</p>
<p>I know&#8230;it makes us humans sound confused. This is also true, which is why you understand what I&#8217;m pointing out. </p>
<p><em>But JClay, doesn&#8217;t &#8220;confused&#8221; mean that you don&#8217;t understand?</em> Exactly. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f601.png" alt="😁" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p>Back to &#8220;here&#8221;.</p>
<p>The first step in understanding why you are here is to know the &#8220;here&#8221; that you&#8217;re asking about.</p>
<p>If you want some extra credit, you can play the &#8220;Where&#8217;s here?&#8221; game. It&#8217;s where you ask yourself, &#8220;Where am I?&#8221;</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll probably start with the room that you are in and eventually escalate to your planet. After that, it starts to get tricky, but it&#8217;s a good awareness exercise to realize that you aren&#8217;t where you think you are.</p>
<p>So if you do play the &#8220;Where&#8217;s here?&#8221; game, try to go as far as you can.</p>
<p>And then of course ask yourself again, &#8220;Why am I here?&#8221; with the new awareness of where you think here is.</p>
<h2>Who is &#8220;I&#8221; or who are you?</h2>
<p>If your brain isn&#8217;t tingling yet, it&#8217;s about to.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s talk the &#8220;I&#8221; aka your I-dentity aka your Individuality aka your I-dea of yourself.</p>
<p>Before I go too in-depth, ask yourself right now who you are. </p>
<p>Did answers come up like your name, profession, race, class, etc? </p>
<p>Let&#8217;s say you let go completely of your past, all of it. Who are you right now in this moment? </p>
<p>Your sex may have come into play. But are you just flesh? If so, you would&#8217;ve died with the millions of cells that died from your body today.</p>
<p>Go deeper. Who are you? And with the knowledge that <a href="https://jclay.org/no-death/">you&#8217;re not a body</a>, what are you?</p>
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<p>If you were anything like me, you may have thought that you were your thoughts and emotions? </p>
<p>The problem, however, is that thoughts and emotions come and go, and you always seem to remain even when they&#8217;re gone. </p>
<p>So you&#8217;re not a body, you&#8217;re not your thoughts, and you&#8217;re not your emotions. What the heck are you?</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t say your past either. If you did, go listen to <a href="https://jclay.org/videos/let-go-lyric/">this song</a> right now.</p>
<p>Since your past is gone while you are here, then we can conclude that you&#8217;re not your past either.</p>
<h2>What you truly are</h2>
<p>Let us now answer the questions, &#8220;Who am I?&#8221; and &#8220;What am I?&#8221;</p>
<p>Everything you perceive outside of yourself seems to have meaning.</p>
<p>What may not yet be realized is that you gave it all the meaning that it has.</p>
<p>This explains why some of your friends may like partying while you do not (or vice versa).</p>
<p>It&#8217;s because it has no meaning to you, or you place no value in it.</p>
<p>You are what gives value to the valueless. </p>
<p>In order to give value, you must be valuable. </p>
<p>In this, your identity is shared with all. You&#8217;ve given value to that you want to value and thus your own perceived value is reflected back to you.</p>
<p>You are not apart from anything. In other words, you are one with everything.</p>
<p>This is why <a href="https://jclay.org/tag/mindset/">mindset</a> is everything.</p>
<p>That which you believe about a person or thing will be made real to you because you gave realness to it through your thoughts. You &#8220;realized&#8221; it. </p>
<p>Everyone is not ready to accept responsibility for their own thoughts. But once you do, you&#8217;ll see that life was always everything you thought it would be.</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s your purpose? Whatever you&#8217;ve done on purpose. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f601.png" alt="😁" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<h2>The answer to, &#8220;Why am I here?&#8221;</h2>
<p>To answer once and for all, &#8220;Why am I here&#8221;, let&#8217;s restate the big reveal from above.</p>
<p><strong>You are not apart from anything&#8230;you are one with everything.</strong></p>
<p>You believe that you are a separate being, but the truth is that you are one with all existence.</p>
<p>By asking yourself why you are here, you are siding with the false notion that you could be separate. And so in this asking, you are denying yourself yourself. </p>
<p>To ask, &#8220;Why am I here?&#8221; is to already have the answer.</p>
<p>The &#8220;I&#8221; is &#8220;here&#8221; because you&#8217;ve attempted to separate yourself from reality by asking a question that is not possible.</p>
<p>The idea of separateness is the cause of all despair and fear. </p>
<p>&#8220;Why am I here?&#8221; You are not, well at least not how you believe yourself to be.</p>
<p>You are.</p>
<p>You are not a body or thing.</p>
<p>You are.</p>
<p>You are not a thought or emotion.</p>
<p>You are.</p>
<p>To say that you are anything is to place a limit on yourself and what you are can only be described as limitless. Yet the word &#8220;limitless&#8221; is just a symbol and cannot represent the totality of what you are.</p>
<p>You exist beyond all existence. You cannot be separate from your Creator just as your creations cannot be separate from you.</p>
<h2>Author&#8217;s Notes</h2>
<p>I know. It got a little deep. Some may not even understand it right now.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s ok. </p>
<p>You will eventually. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve even made <a href="https://jclay.org/album/">this album</a> to help you along. </p>
<p>It takes you step-by-step through the undoing of false ideas you have of yourself so that you may tap into your limitless potential.</p>
<p>And best of all, you can chill out and vibe to it from start to finish.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s title <a href="https://jclay.org/album/">IAMNOBODY, IAMSOMEONE</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2021 16:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Do you journal? Whether you do or not, try these journal prompts even if you need to type the answers. It will definitely lead to some deep truths about yourself that you didn't realize. </p>
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<p>These journal prompts will quickly get you in alignment with what you truly want, not just with what you think you want.</p>
<p>I first got introduced to journaling from the book <a href="https://amzn.to/3dgWRZA" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Miracle Morning</a> by Hal Elrod. In it he spoke about doing SAVERS daily&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>S &#8211; Silence &#8211; Sitting in silence or meditating</li>
<li>A &#8211; <a href="https://jclay.org/affirmations/">Affirmations</a> &#8211; Saying affirmations</li>
<li>V &#8211; Visualizations &#8211; Visualizing yourself receiving/achieving what you want</li>
<li>E &#8211; Exercise &#8211; Exercising</li>
<li>R &#8211; <a href="https://jclay.org/books/">Reading</a> &#8211; Reading books toward what you want to learn</li>
<li>S &#8211; Scribing &#8211; Journaling</li>
</ul>
<p>I had experience with all of the above except journaling. I knew how the others were helpful so it made it easier to trust the recommendation to add journaling to my repertoire.</p>
<p>So I &#8220;borrowed&#8221; a notebook from my then job&#8217;s supply cabinet and got ready to journal.</p>
<p>The only problem was, I didn&#8217;t know what to write.</p>
<p>I probably actually wrote, &#8220;I don&#8217;t know what to write in here.&#8221; next to that day&#8217;s date.</p>
<p>Yet this is a new day. With more experience and knowledge around the subject, I&#8217;m here to provide you with the journal prompts that will help serve you the most.</p>
<h2>Journal Prompts You Should Be Using</h2>
<ol>
<li>What can I do today (or tomorrow) that will make me super happy?</li>
<li>What do I love about my life?</li>
<li>What&#8217;s something that sucks and is there a way of looking at it where I no longer think it&#8217;s sucky?</li>
<li>If money was never an issue, how would I spend my day?</li>
<li>Make a list of people that have wronged me and explain why I&#8217;m scared to forgive them.</li>
<li>What does God want me to do that I&#8217;m avoiding?</li>
<li>It&#8217;s been said that &#8230; &#8220;How you do anything is how you do everything.&#8221; &#8230; How does that make me feel about my life?</li>
</ol>
<p>What journal prompts do you use that are the most transformative? </p>
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<p>Death is one of those topics that's a hot button for many people. It seems to be inevitable to all, yet that doesn't make it hurt any less. This article touches that button so that it will no longer hurt at all. Let's get into it.</p>
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<p>Living in today&#8217;s world, death seems inescapable. Many have even accepted it for themselves and look forward to approaching that day at a future time.</p>
<p>However, many have not accepted it for their loved ones. When a death occurs, it can feel like nothing makes sense and that the world is unfair.</p>
<p>If you are a follower of this blog or my <a href="https://jclay.org/album/">music</a>, you know that I don&#8217;t believe in death in the way that many others do.</p>
<p>The intent of this article is not to change your beliefs regarding death. That&#8217;s what <a href="https://jclay.org/no-death/">There Is No Death, No Pain, and No Evil</a> is for.</p>
<p>This article is to show how you can be alright at this moment when the thoughts of loss seem too great.</p>
<p>There may be some things in this article that seem to strike a nerve, but continue to read it in its entirety. This will help you.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s get into the 5 ways to easily get over the death of a loved one.</p>
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<h2>1. It&#8217;s All About You</h2>
<p>This is going to come as a shocker, but know that I am saying this with love.</p>
<p><strong>When someone dies, it&#8217;s not about you.</strong></p>
<p>That person supposedly lost their life, but you didn&#8217;t lose anything.</p>
<p>So if you&#8217;re going to feel sad, don&#8217;t feel sad for yourself. You&#8217;re still here and get to live it up.</p>
<p>Instead, feel sad that they won&#8217;t get to live it up, which has nothing to do with you. And then, remember that you don&#8217;t need to feel sad at all.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not suggesting that you hold back your feelings. Let them out in a huge cry if you need to.</p>
<p>But then celebrate and honor your memory of them by feeling good that you crossed paths and that the best parts of them are with you always.</p>
<h2>2. A Loved One&#8217;s Purpose</h2>
<p>There is a belief that people exist in this world only for your will. I know, it&#8217;s a hidden belief. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f644.png" alt="🙄" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p>You lay claim to these people through your words, i.e. your friends, your family, your this, your that, etc.</p>
<p>Within this belief, you think you know what&#8217;s best for them all. You know their highest capabilities and even their incapabilities.</p>
<p>Additionally, you know that whenever you call them, it&#8217;s best for them to fulfill your request. That request could be to entertain you, make you feel better, be good company, whatever.</p>
<p>But do you really know this? Do you even know that you think you know this?</p>
<p>Everything and everyone that exists has a purpose or else they would not be here.</p>
<p>In terms of items, when you no longer have a purpose for one, you either throw it away or give it away to be repurposed.</p>
<p>Many of us still don&#8217;t even know our own purpose, let alone the purpose of another.</p>
<p><a href="https://jclay.org/gene-keys-review/">How To Discover Your Purpose</a></p>
<h3>What does this mean?</h3>
<p>When you perceive a person&#8217;s death, you don&#8217;t know if their purpose was fulfilled or not.</p>
<p>You also don&#8217;t know if the circumstances surrounding their death were a manifestation of their commonly repeated thoughts.</p>
<p>The person may have gotten exactly what he or she wanted out of life and was ready to transition to something else.</p>
<p>Again, you don&#8217;t know.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s no sense in being mad or sad over something that you don&#8217;t know.</p>
<p>Furthermore, for those that believe in God, as I do. Do you really believe that God&#8217;s Will could not be done? Trust It. Trust Him.</p>
<p>He knows what&#8217;s best for you and He wants to give it to you. But it&#8217;s hard to receive something when you&#8217;re denying it.</p>
<h2>3. Closing Off Yourself From New Experiences</h2>
<p>When you&#8217;re a kid, everything is exciting because it&#8217;s all-new.</p>
<p>Everything is also exciting because it stays new.</p>
<p>No moment is like the previous one nor do you try to make it that way.</p>
<p>But as you get older, you try to recreate past moments that you felt were great. You deny this moment in favor of one that already happened.</p>
<p>You no longer trust that exciting experiences will be brought to you so you invest in what could never be, the past.</p>
<p>When you live in the past, you try to hold on to everything and everyone exactly as they were in that moment.</p>
<p>Yet you know as well as anyone that people&#8217;s thoughts, feelings, and bodies change every second of the day.</p>
<p>This means that by holding on, you are essentially setting yourself up to remain disappointed at all times.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s almost like your thoughts of choice are, &#8220;<em>I want what I could never again have because I know everything about the world including that everything else would suck in comparison.</em>&#8221;</p>
<p>If your thoughts, feelings, and body is changing all the time, that means that what you would enjoy changes all the time as well. God and the universe are always wanting to give to you that which you would enjoy.</p>
<p>But by holding onto one tiny moment that happened infinity moments ago, you are choosing littleness instead of abundance.</p>
<p>In doing this, the only thing that can make you happy is that which could never be.</p>
<p>Let go of the past so that you can experience all that the present has to offer in its glory.</p>
<p>This is not to say to forget about your loved one. This is to say to live now for you both.</p>
<h2>4. Communicating with Your Loved One</h2>
<p>The loved one is still with you now. Who you are is a combination of yourself and their influences over you. So literally, you are no longer just yourself.</p>
<p>In addition to that, you can actually communicate with your loved ones now as if they are here because, in reality, they are.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how.</p>
<p>Sit in a comfortable position. Relax completely being fully grounded in the present. Feel your toes touch the floor or your shoes. Let go of any past thoughts or experiences. Make only this moment your focus.</p>
<p>Close your eyes and think of the love shared between you and your loved one. Now say what you would say to them either out loud or to yourself.</p>
<p>Listen to what you receive back from them. It may not be heard with the body&#8217;s ears, but it&#8217;s definitely felt.</p>
<p>You can do this any time of any day for any length of time. So have at it. Enjoy a full dialogue.</p>
<p>A quote from one of my favorite books <a href="https://jclay.org/acim-review/">A Course In Miracles (ACIM)</a> perfectly sums up why you are able to do this.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Nothing real can be threatened. Nothing unreal exists. Herein lies the peace of God.</em>&#8220;</p></blockquote>
<p>And in case you want a bible quote, check out Luke 20:38.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>He is not the God of the dead, but of the living, for to Him all are alive.</em>&#8220;</p></blockquote>
<h2>5. Holding Onto Form Weakens You</h2>
<p>As I mentioned above, you are choosing littleness instead of abundance.</p>
<p>You already accept that your thoughts, beliefs, and body are endlessly changing. And throughout all of these changes, you&#8217;ve still always been you.</p>
<p>So what version of your loved one are you trying to hold? And why would you want them to be stuck in a changeless form for your benefit?</p>
<p>There are so many people in your physical awareness right now that would love for you to enjoy them.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s impossible to experience both loss and abundance. Each denies the other and so only one can be true.</p>
<p>If loss was real, then you would be happy to receive it. However, since abundance is real, even the illusion of loss can be.</p>
<p>To believe that your loved ones are only a body is to believe that you are an insignificant speck incapable of anything real.</p>
<p>This is not true. You are the light of the world. Your rays extend beyond any and everything ever-flowing for eternity.</p>
<h2>In Conclusion</h2>
<p>In conclusion, your loved ones didn&#8217;t die. Only your perception of who they were, died.</p>
<p>Let go of this perception so that you can LIVE with them always.</p>
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<p>Are you happy? Really try to answer this question. There's no shame in answering no. Just know that this can be changed. You deserve happiness and it's your birthright. I created this checklist to help you rediscover your happiness. </p>
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<p>Happiness. We all want it. We all love to be it. Most importantly, we never want to be without it.</p>
<p>Happy people are just fun to be around unless of course, you don&#8217;t feel happy.</p>
<p>Happiness doesn&#8217;t mean you have to skip up and down the street singling la la la. But it does mean that you are truly content with life at this moment.</p>
<p>A while back I wrote <a href="https://jclay.org/how-to-be-happy/">How To Be Happy All The Time</a>. That article is a very detailed look at what&#8217;s blocking your happiness and how to change it.</p>
<p>This checklist is a simplified version. When you&#8217;re able to complete this checklist, you&#8217;ll know that you are living the best possible life you can.</p>
<p>Living the best possible life does not mean you won&#8217;t have goals and new experiences you want to try. It means that whether you meet those goals or not, you&#8217;re still happy. It also means that there will be nothing stopping you from pursuing more joy.</p>
<p>You will be free.</p>
<p>I just have one question for you.</p>
<p>Would you complete this checklist if you knew it would lead you to ultimate happiness?</p>
<h2>The Simple Checklist for a Happy Life</h2>
<ul class="checklist">
<li>I&#8217;ve organized my life so that my mornings are happy</li>
<li>I&#8217;ve organized my life so that my afternoons are happy</li>
<li>I&#8217;ve organized my life so that my evenings are happy</li>
<li>I&#8217;ve organized my life so that when I sleep, I sleep well</li>
</ul>
<h2>Happiness Checklist Explained</h2>
<p>Just so there&#8217;s no mistaking, mornings are from when you wake until noon. Afternoons are from noon until about 5 pm. Evenings are from 5 pm until bedtime. And of course, your sleep time is when you&#8217;re sleeping.</p>
<p>This is pretty simple, right?</p>
<p>Yet there are many things at play.</p>
<p>Your morning may be affected by how well you sleep. And your sleep may be affected by your nights.</p>
<p>Each part of your day seems to affect another.</p>
<p>By focusing on one part at a time, you can see the inconsistencies. You&#8217;ll see the patterns within your relationships, health, work, and even leisure.</p>
<p>You may even discover that your nights, sleep, and mornings are perfect, but your afternoons aren&#8217;t so happy.</p>
<p>In this case, taking action toward improving your afternoons may lead to your mornings declining in happiness.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s what&#8217;s great about this. You will start to create holistic solutions so that every part of your life is filled with happiness and not just some.</p>
<h2>How To Use This Checklist</h2>
<ol>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ol>
<li>Write out your checklist (or use <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/dcyj46z46d9dphc/Happiness%20Checklist.pdf?dl=0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">this printable Happiness Checklist</a>)</li>
<li>Purposefully reflect on yesterday</li>
<li>Mark a check next to each section that you experienced total happiness</li>
<li>Count the number of checkmarks to get your Happiness Score for yesterday</li>
</ol>
</li>
</ol>
<h3>Happiness Score of 4 &#8211; I&#8217;m Happy!</h3>
<p>If your score is 4, congratulations, you live a happy life or at least lived one yesterday.</p>
<p>Just in case yesterday did not represent your normal routine, repeat the checklist for a day that does. Then compare the results.</p>
<p>If your score is still a 4, then keep on being happy!</p>
<h3>Happiness Score of 3 &#8211; I&#8217;m Pretty Happy</h3>
<p>Congratulations! You may have a few things to reorder in your life, but this is still a great place to be. </p>
<p>Work toward being happy in that remaining area and take care to not take any away from the others.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s ok to take baby steps.</p>
<h3>Happiness Score of 2 &#8211; I Want A Happier Life</h3>
<p>Half of your days are happy and if you count weekends, you&#8217;re over 50%, which is a good start.</p>
<p>However, it&#8217;s time to take inventory, but don&#8217;t focus on all parts of your day at once. </p>
<p>Start with one and list out what you think prevented you from being happy.</p>
<p>Work toward being happy in that area. This might involve learning some new skills or even unlearning old behaviors. </p>
<p>No matter where this journey takes you, let it take you happily.</p>
<p>Once you reach a score of 3, follow the instructions above.</p>
<h3>Happiness Score of 1 &#8211; I Need To Make Some Changes</h3>
<p>A score of 1 seems bad, but it&#8217;s really a good thing because now you know. And since you know, you can do something about it.</p>
<p>Start by asking yourself, &#8220;Do I really want to continue living life like this? Is it worth it? How will I know if it&#8217;s worth it? How long have my days been like this?&#8221;</p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t like the answer to any of these questions, good. You are more aware of your needs than you ever have been.</p>
<p>Start small. Don&#8217;t make any big changes yet like quit your job and leave your spouse. </p>
<p>Choose the easiest timeframe to improve. Really go at it. </p>
<p>It won&#8217;t take long to improve at all.</p>
<p>Once you get your Happiness Score to 2, following the instructions above for that score.</p>
<h3>Happiness Score of 0 &#8211; I Need To Make Some Immediate Changes</h3>
<p>The good news is, your score is only going to go up from here.</p>
<p>Changes do need to be made. Know that you deserve happiness in your life. </p>
<p>Say this right now, &#8220;I&#8217;m open to the idea that I deserve more happiness in my life.&#8221;</p>
<p>Say it once more. &#8220;I&#8217;m open to the idea that I deserve more happiness in my life.&#8221;</p>
<p>Awesome! The remnants of that phrase are now echoing throughout the universe gathering allies to help you realize this.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m one of them. <a href="https://jclay.org/contact/">Message me here</a> with the subject &#8220;I Got A Happiness Score of 0&#8221;. In the body of the message, let me know anything you think I need to know in order to help you. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll respond shortly with some assistance.</p>
<h2>Stay Happy</h2>
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<p>Life is meant to be lived happily. Even if your idea of happiness is not the norm, you still deserve to be happy. </p>
<p>Live what that is for you. </p>
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<p>We all know that meditation works, but it's not always that easy to do. Or is it? Here are 12 ways people meditate. I'm sure at least one of these will help you tremendously.</p>
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<p>Everyone wants general wellness and it&#8217;s no secret that a daily meditation routine will help.</p>
<p>But with everything going on, who has time to meditate?</p>
<p>Luckily, some of these meditations only take 1 minute to do.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t have to be a pro to begin meditating and receiving its many benefits.</p>
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<p>Below are some of the ways you can start to meditate now.</p>
<p>Just choose at least one and go with it.</p>
<h2>1. Guided Meditation</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 3 minutes to 3 hours</em></p>
<p>Meditation is all about relaxing and letting go of any perceived stress.</p>
<p>Sometimes you don&#8217;t want to think about how not to think.</p>
<p>This is where guided meditation comes into play.</p>
<p>Guided meditation is a meditation ranging from a few minutes to several hours where another instructs your mind where to go.</p>
<p>This individual also tells you how to sit and what to focus on so that you don&#8217;t have to think about anything at all.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s usually led by a yoga instructor, a religious guide, or a cool YouTuber.</p>
<p><strong>Resources:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vx8iUvfyCY" target="_blank" rel="noopener">40-Minute Guided Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Evgx9yX2Vw8" target="_blank" rel="noopener">10-Minute Guided Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pJAqRdKd8Kc" target="_blank" rel="noopener">3-Minute Guided Meditation</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQoFUPLLU3o" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Guided Rap Meditation</a></li>
</ul>
<h2>2. Mantra</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 3-30 minutes</em></p>
<p>Mantra meditation is when you repeat a word, sound, or phrase to help release your mind.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s it. You just sit comfortably and repeat the mantra either out loud or to yourself.</p>
<p><strong>Helpful Mantras:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>&#8220;<a href="https://acim.org/workbook/lesson-199/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">I am not a body. I am free. For I am still as God created me.</a>&#8220;</li>
<li>&#8220;<a href="https://isha.sadhguru.org/us/en/wisdom/article/not-body-not-mind" target="_blank" rel="noopener">I am not the body, I am not the mind.</a>&#8220;</li>
<li>&#8220;<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Om" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Om</a>&#8220;</li>
</ul>
<h2>3. Breathing Meditation</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 1 minute to 30 minutes (3 to 100 deep breaths)</em></p>
<p>Breathing meditation is when you focus only on your breath.</p>
<p>A breath is a complete inhale and exhale. The slower and deeper you breathe, the more relaxed you will feel.</p>
<p>You can do these anywhere and at any time (ie in the car, standing in a long line, holding a crying baby, etc).</p>
<p>Whenever you are most relaxed, you breathe slowly. So by practicing breathing slowly, you will be most relaxed.</p>
<p>For extra credit, try to get to 100 complete breaths where you only focus on breathing. If your mind wanders at all during the count, you must restart your count.</p>
<p><strong>Noted Benefits:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.discovermagazine.com/health/can-breathing-like-wim-hof-make-us-superhuman" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Ability to handle extreme weather</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.somalab.net/studies-reports/male-multiple-orgasms-techniques/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Multi-orgasmic</a></li>
<li><a href="https://rightasrain.uwmedicine.org/mind/stress/why-deep-breathing-makes-you-feel-so-chill" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Anxiety free</a></li>
</ul>
<h2>4. Clear your mind</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 1 minute to 30 minutes</em></p>
<p>Although all meditation is geared toward helping clear the mind, this meditation is focused only on that.</p>
<p>To achieve this, you sit comfortably with your eyes closed, and you clear your mind.</p>
<p>When a thought arises, let it go.</p>
<p>In the beginning, you may find yourself dwelling on these thoughts for a while before letting them go. It will get easier with practice.</p>
<p><strong>Great places to clear your mind:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>In a warm or hot bath</li>
<li>Sitting on the toilet</li>
<li>In a dark closet</li>
</ul>
<h2>5. Solo Activity Outside</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 5 minutes to 3 hours</em></p>
<p>There&#8217;s something about being in nature alone that gets your mind working on a higher level.</p>
<p>Yes, thoughts will come. The difference is that these thoughts will be clear and helpful.</p>
<p>When you are both alone and not listening to anything through headphones, you let go and become one with your nature.</p>
<p>You notice what you hadn&#8217;t before and can even experience a state of bliss.</p>
<p><strong>Activities that may spark higher level relaxed thought:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Riding a bike</li>
<li>Eating fruit</li>
<li>Running</li>
<li>Walking</li>
<li>Fishing</li>
<li>Sitting</li>
</ul>
<h2>6. Music</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 3 minutes to 2 hours</em></p>
<p>Music meditation can take many forms.</p>
<p>Alone, music can help lift your spirits and slow down your breathing.</p>
<p>When combined with meditation, it can multiply the benefits. This all depends on the type of music and the frequency at which you listen.</p>
<p>Many prefer to use slow, melodic music that you could fall asleep to.</p>
<p>This keeps you calm and acts as a prompt for you to relax.</p>
<p>Since access to music is not always available when you want to meditate, try not to rely heavily on it.</p>
<p>Unbeknownst to many, <a href="https://jclay.org/self-sabotage/">music with words can act as a guided meditation</a>.</p>
<p>So if the music you listen to reinforces the thoughts of distrust, loneliness, and even depression that led you to seek relaxation through it, then you could be canceling out its effects.</p>
<p><strong>Resources:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="https://jclay.org/pre-order/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Healing Rap Music</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RCOSoX2YLbw" target="_blank" rel="noopener">741 hz Music</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=58ZNeCS05lI" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Slow Music</a></li>
</ul>
<h2>7. Silence</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 1 minute to 2 hours</em></p>
<p>Silence meditation is just what it sounds like. You sit in silence.</p>
<p>You can focus on your breath if you want, but it isn&#8217;t a requirement.</p>
<p>When you meditate in silence, you sit and let whatever happens, happen.</p>
<p>You may find yourself dwelling on a thought or asking yourself a question. It doesn&#8217;t matter.</p>
<p>What is important is that you allow yourself to sit quietly with your eyes closed in silence.</p>
<p><strong>Resources:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Shh <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f92b.png" alt="🤫" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></li>
</ul>
<h2>8. Body scan</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 2 minutes to 1 hour</em></p>
<p>Body scan meditation is where you make yourself fully aware of your body.</p>
<p>You do this by closing your eyes and bringing your awareness to either your feet or your head. Then you trace through every part of your body filling it with love and healing energies.</p>
<p>Many guided meditations will often start with a body scan. It can lead to you relaxing muscles you didn&#8217;t even know needed relaxing.</p>
<p><strong>Resources:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i7xGF8F28zo" target="_blank" rel="noopener">30-minute guided body scan</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QS2yDmWk0vs" target="_blank" rel="noopener">8-minute guided body scan</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lssbXfWU_c" target="_blank" rel="noopener">2-minute guided body scan</a></li>
</ul>
<h2>9. Visualization</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 1-10 minutes</em></p>
<p>Visualization is all about focus. It&#8217;s an extreme focus on a feeling or goal that you want.</p>
<p>Visualizing your goal allows you to practice having it.</p>
<p>Success will no longer be a scary thing because you would have practiced it multiple times in your mind.</p>
<p>You can use visualization to practice being happy, to see yourself fully healed, or even living in a new place.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re only limited by your imagination.</p>
<p><strong>Resources:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Your imagination</li>
</ul>
<h2>10. Giving love</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 1-10 minutes</em></p>
<p>A giving love meditation is very similar to Visualization and even body scan.</p>
<p>This is where you sit quiet and visualize yourself or another, and send huge amounts of love toward him or her.</p>
<p>The best results come from sending love to someone you feel is <a href="https://jclay.org/toxic/">toxic</a> or an <a href="https://jclay.org/enemy/">enemy</a>. So much healing comes from this exercise.</p>
<p>You can also use this technique to send love to your job if you don&#8217;t love it yet.</p>
<p><strong>Resources:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Love <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2764.png" alt="❤" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></li>
</ul>
<h2>11. Reflection meditation</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 3-30 minutes</em></p>
<p>Reflection meditation is great for entrepreneurs. It&#8217;s also great for those seeking true answers.</p>
<p>The idea is that you sit quietly with your eyes closed. Then you ask yourself a question. Next, you simply wait for an answer.</p>
<p>However, don&#8217;t force or demand an answer. Let it come naturally.</p>
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<p>This practice can take your mind to many places. You may even want to keep a notepad handy for all of the ideas that might come to mind.</p>
<p><strong>Starting questions to ask:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>What&#8217;s <a href="https://amzn.to/374Sbm2" target="_blank" rel="noopener">the one thing</a> I can do such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?</li>
<li>Am I my body, my mind, or something else?</li>
<li>What am I grateful for?</li>
</ul>
<h2>12. Yoga</h2>
<p><em><strong>Time:</strong> 10 minutes to 2 hours</em></p>
<p>If done mindfully, yoga combines exercise with meditation. Yoga can sync your mind, body, and spirit together for a single purpose.</p>
<p><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-6213" src="https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/yoga-meditation-1-559x349.jpg?x77171" alt="woman doing yoga on a mountain" width="559" height="349" /></p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve never done yoga before, seek help from a professional.</p>
<p>There are many great yoga teachers in your town and on YouTube.</p>
<p><strong>Resources:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLy2rYHwUqY" target="_blank" rel="noopener">25-minute yoga</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTANio_2E0Q" target="_blank" rel="noopener">20-minute yoga</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pKly2JojMw" target="_blank" rel="noopener">10-minute yoga</a></li>
</ul>
<h2>THINGS TO REMEMBER</h2>
<p>You don&#8217;t have to be perfect with any of these. Giving your mind a break for even a minute works wonders for your mental and general health.</p>
<p>Many of these meditations can be used together or in a sequence.</p>
<p>Experiment and see what you like.</p>
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<li><a href="https://jclay.org/acim" target="_blank" rel="noopener">ACIM Book</a> &#8211; workbook</li>
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<p>There are a lot of lies being told to us and even by us. But does lying really help? Who really benefits from a lie? If you knew that being truthful could heal you, would you continue to lie? Let's find out. </p>
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<p><em>Lie &#8211; an intentionally false statement.</em></p>
<p>No lie, you are being lied to as many as 200 times a day.<sup>[<a href="https://amzn.to/3oMKM0N" target="_blank" rel="noopener">1</a>]</sup> You will also contribute an average of 2 lies per day to the world, assuming you are truthful about it.<sup>[<a href="https://www.umass.edu/newsoffice/article/umass-amherst-researcher-finds-most-people-lie-everyday-conversation" target="_blank" rel="noopener">2</a>]</sup></p>
<p>Whether you tell a lie to protect another or to be more agreeable, each lie told will uniquely affect your mind. It will create conflict between the lie and the truth you hold to keep the lie in place. And since the mind controls the body, conflict within the mind will eventually manifest as conflict within the body.</p>
<p>Whew, this got deep really fast.</p>
<p>What if &#8220;<strong>the truth will set you free</strong>&#8221; is not just one of those catchy sayings to get a liar to suddenly become truthful? What if this phrase is a blueprint to healing your body?</p>
<p>This <em>truth</em> is what we will uncover in this article. By the end, you will know if you have been sabotaging yourself with lies, incorporating wishful thinking, or trapped so deep in a world where the truth and the lies are indistinguishable.</p>
<h2>How The Brain Processes Lies</h2>
<p>In 2016, Nature Neuroscience <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27775721/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">published a study</a> showing that whenever people utter words of dishonesty, there is a burst of activity in their amygdala. The amygdala is responsible for producing anxiety, fear, and feelings of guilt within the body. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f914.png" alt="🤔" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> Very interesting.</p>
<p>So if lies do this much damage, then why do people keep telling them?</p>
<p>The answer <em>lies</em> within the same study.</p>
<p>The scientists had the participants play a game where they would win money by being deceptive. What was fascinating is that in this scenario, the emotional responses in the amygdala decreased.</p>
<p>However, the effects remained present in the body.</p>
<p>So why lie?</p>
<h2>Why People Lie</h2>
<p>To understand if lying has any benefits, you first need to recognize why you lie at all.</p>
<p>All the lies ever told can be fit into four categories as outlined by <a href="https://www.nationalgeographic.com/magazine/2017/06/lying-hoax-false-fibs-science/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">this article by National Geographic</a>.</p>
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<ol>
<li>Promoting Yourself (44%)
<ol>
<li>For a financial benefit (16%)</li>
<li>For a non-financial benefit (15%)</li>
<li>Creating a better self-image (8%)</li>
<li>Appearing humorous (5%)</li>
</ol>
</li>
<li>Protecting Yourself (36%)
<ol>
<li>Covering a mistake or misdeed (22%)</li>
<li>Avoiding others (14%)</li>
</ol>
</li>
<li>Impacting Others (11%)
<ol>
<li>Helping others (5%)</li>
<li>Hurting others (4%)</li>
<li>Being polite (2%)</li>
</ol>
</li>
<li>Unclear (9%)
<ol>
<li>Don’t even know why you&#8217;re lying while lying (7%)</li>
<li>Are deemed as a pathological liar (2%)</li>
</ol>
</li>
</ol>
<p>Let’s break these down.</p>
<h2>What does this all mean?</h2>
<p>Looking at the first two on the list, 80% of the lies you tell come from believing one of two things. Either that you are not enough as you are or what you are can be lost.</p>
<p>There would be no purpose in promoting yourself or protecting yourself otherwise.</p>
<p>As one who is promoting himself, even within this article, this is a helpful reminder.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">See also <a href="https://jclay.org/mind-control/">The 5 Ways Your Mind Betrays You</a>.</p>
<p>Telling lies for any of these reasons reinforces your belief in your inadequacy, creating the circumstances for you to continue to lie.</p>
<p>Each one feeds itself in a perfect loop. You feel inadequate because you lie, yet you lie because you feel inadequate.</p>
<p>Another 11% of lies comes from wanting to impact others.</p>
<p>If you can impact others, then others can impact you. So the truths or lies you tell may not be of your own doing. They may have been pressed upon you by others.</p>
<p>The last 9% states that the reasons are unclear.</p>
<p>Since repeated actions become automatic over time, perhaps these lies are told out of habit.</p>
<h2>What exactly is the truth and what is a lie?</h2>
<p>Here is where it gets a little complicated. Your mind does not always know the difference between the truth and a lie.</p>
<p>Two opposing thoughts or statements can have the same effect on you. For example, look at the following phrases:</p>
<ul>
<li>People are awesome.</li>
<li>People suck.</li>
</ul>
<p>You have probably said both of these at one point. And both times, you meant it.</p>
<p>Yet neither declaration can be classified as the truth or a lie.</p>
<p>One causes you to be comfortable around people, and the other leads to you keeping your distance.</p>
<p>You were affected by both as if both were true.</p>
<p>No longer does validity matter. What matters is if the statement aligns with what you are and who you want to be.</p>
<p>By knowingly telling a lie, you are inviting conflict into your body.</p>
<p>Will unknowingly telling a lie do the same?</p>
<h2>Healing the body with words</h2>
<p>For hundreds of years, maybe more, patients have healed as a result of the placebo effect. The placebo effect is when a fake treatment is given to a patient, and this treatment leads to the patient&#8217;s healing.</p>
<p>One could argue that lies heal patients.</p>
<p>French psychologist Émile Coué introduced popular psychotherapy now called autosuggestion.</p>
<p>Autosuggestion is a self-induced suggestion (affirmation) in which you guide your own thoughts, feelings, or behavior. Instead of being affected by the words of others, you consciously pre-determine what to think.</p>
<p>For example, Émile Coué had his patients repeat many times a day, &#8220;<em>Every day in every way I am getting better and better.</em>&#8221;</p>
<p>Notice the careful wording of the above phrase. It prompts your mind to search for and find ways that you are getting better and better.</p>
<p>Naturally, the body follows what the mind tells it.</p>
<p>Since this is not a lie, there is no conflict. Or so it would seem.</p>
<p>If your previous thoughts were aligned with getting worse and worse each day, this new belief would oppose it.</p>
<p>There would be conflict, but only for a short time until your thoughts are singular in purpose.</p>
<p>Once the idea of health is fully accepted for yourself, you will be healthy.</p>
<p>So now truthfulness becomes an entirely different thing. No longer does it look upon a statement&#8217;s validity, truthfulness becomes how true you are to what you want in life.</p>
<p>Some examples would be:</p>
<ul>
<li>If you want health, but you are worried about and focused on ill-health, germs, diseases, etc.</li>
<li>If you want to be pain-free, yet you disagree openly with others and verbally attack those with opposing views.</li>
</ul>
<p>Any opposing thought will attempt to undo what the same mind created.</p>
<h2>How To Accept Truthfulness For Yourself</h2>
<p>I will point out 3 ways to go about this.</p>
<p>The first and easiest is using autosuggestion.</p>
<p>Set up your environment so that:</p>
<ol>
<li>Nothing reflects the life you don&#8217;t want</li>
<li>Everything reflects the life you do want</li>
</ol>
<p>This includes the websites you visit and the music you listen to.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t worry about removing people from your life right now. That would just create more conflict.</p>
<p>Another way is to quiet your thoughts so that you don&#8217;t think them as much.</p>
<p>This is contrary to popular belief. Many believe that thinking is both healthy and needed.</p>
<p>It is not. When your thoughts aren&#8217;t present to distort reality, you will see things as they truly are, instead of how you&#8217;ve imagined them.</p>
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<p>The third way to accept truthfulness for yourself is to share the thoughts you want with everyone you come in contact with. The more people that share your thoughts with, the more these thoughts will be reflected everywhere you look.</p>
<p>When your thoughts and vision are not in competition with one another, you will know a peace so deep that it could heal the world.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://jclay.org/blog/truth-heals/">How Telling the Truth Will Heal Your Body</a> appeared first on <a href="https://jclay.org">JClay</a>.</p>
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