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<p>I&#8217;ve read the books. Memorized what needed memorizing. Took notes. Received the highest of grades. But I never found in a book what I always knew to be true. I [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>I&#8217;ve read the books. Memorized what needed memorizing. Took notes. Received the highest of grades.</p>



<p>But I never found in a book what I always knew to be true.</p>



<p>I mean, how could I?</p>



<p>Books use words.</p>



<p>Words are symbols.</p>



<p>Symbols can never hold the vastness of what they represent.</p>



<p>Could your essence truly be captured by symbols?</p>



<p>How accurate would they be?</p>



<p>Would you rather eat a mango or read the letters that represent it?</p>



<p>You get my meaning.</p>



<p>The experience is the treasure. It is our gift. It&#8217;s the present.</p>



<p>Sure, you could read about me. But to truly know me… you’d have to <em>be</em> me.</p>



<p>Similarly, the only way for that present to be fully recognized is by being present.</p>



<p>In this article, I&#8217;m going to help you unlock the ultimate experience.</p>



<p>Where an apple is not just an apple.</p>



<p>A flower is not just a flower. </p>



<p>Love is not just love.</p>



<p>Everything is closer to how it&#8217;s intended to be experienced.</p>



<p>Beyond all senses.</p>



<p>Beyond all logic.</p>



<p>Shall we begin?</p>



<p><em>Let’s begin</em>!</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The World Is Drowning in Knowledge</h2>



<p>Fifteen years ago, there were already over<a href="https://booksearch.blogspot.com/2010/08/books-of-world-stand-up-and-be-counted.html"> 130 million books in existence</a>. That&#8217;s not even including self-published works.</p>



<p>To read every one of those 130 million books—without stopping, without sleeping—it would take over 62,000 years.</p>



<p>Even if a thousand of us read around the clock without sleeping and while sitting on the toilet, it would still take over seven years to finish.</p>



<p>And yet, with all that information…<br>Are we any closer to having that which is truly meaningful?</p>



<p>Are we any closer to having peace, experiencing endless love, and being in a constant state of bliss? What about joy?</p>



<p>Or are we simply recycling the same old paradigms that existed well before we were &#8220;born&#8221;?</p>



<p>The self-publishing sector alone saw <a href="https://www.accio.com/business/self_publishing_trends?utm_source=chatgpt.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">2.6 million new titles hit platforms in 2023</a>.</p>



<p>But here’s the real question:</p>



<p><strong>Do we need all of this information?</strong></p>



<p>And more importantly… is all this information actually knowledge?</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Information vs Knowledge</h3>



<p>Many have affirmed that knowledge is power. Then what&#8217;s information?</p>



<p>Google defines <em>information</em> as:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>facts provided or learned about something or someone</li>



<li>what is conveyed or represented by a particular arrangement or sequence of things</li>
</ul>



<p>Clearly, everything contained in books isn&#8217;t factual. Or could we be mistaken about what a fact actually is?</p>



<p>Google defines a <em>fact</em> as:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>a thing that is known or proved to be true</li>
</ul>



<p>Now we&#8217;re getting somewhere. </p>



<p>Take a look at the following illustration.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image size-large"><a href="https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/6-9-perspective-illustration.jpg?x82297"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" width="1024" height="576" src="https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/6-9-perspective-illustration-1024x576.jpg?x82297" alt="One man sees a 6 on the floor and another sees a 9. Both our correct from their perspectives." class="wp-image-9442" srcset="https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/6-9-perspective-illustration-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/6-9-perspective-illustration-559x314.jpg 559w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/6-9-perspective-illustration-768x432.jpg 768w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/6-9-perspective-illustration-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/6-9-perspective-illustration-600x338.jpg 600w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/6-9-perspective-illustration.jpg 1920w" sizes="(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></a></figure>



<p>The man on the left sees a 6 and <em>knows</em> it to be true. The man on the right sees a 9 and <em>knows</em> it to be true.</p>



<p>Both can <em>prove</em> their &#8220;truth&#8221;, but are either correct in their assessment?</p>



<p>You may be tempted to say a variation of, &#8220;Yes, they are both correct, and both things are true. It&#8217;s all a matter of perspective.&#8221; </p>



<p>So does truth rely on perspective?</p>



<p>Truly, I tell you, it does not.</p>



<p>Truth is truth.</p>



<p>It never changes.</p>



<p>What&#8217;s true cannot have a contradiction or contain variation, no matter the perspective, because that would render it untrue.</p>



<p>Yet we have words for this: opinions, beliefs, judgments, etc.</p>



<p>We&#8217;ve traded these words for phrases like:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>my truth</li>



<li>in my experience</li>



<li>it is my feeling that</li>



<li>my grandma always said</li>
</ul>



<p>&#8230;and then we treat these as law, which is another made-up concept. </p>



<p>Then we uphold this law and seek to punish those who don&#8217;t adhere to our laws, which aren&#8217;t even based on truth.</p>



<p>Woah!</p>



<p>I have lyrics from a song in the works that illustrate this point perfectly.</p>



<blockquote class="wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow">
<p>The jailed becomes the jailer</p>



<p>Enforcing rules he was teached</p>



<p>Too busy jailing more jailers</p>



<p>Jailer forgets that he&#8217;s free</p>



<p>Jailer calls everyone jealous</p>



<p>When they don&#8217;t care for his key</p>



<p>Jailer was sold on a cell</p>



<p>He tried to sell one to me</p>
</blockquote>



<p>In other words, a lot of fuss and conflict is born out of non-truth.</p>



<p>What sense does that make?</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">We Don&#8217;t Lack Knowledge, We Lack Knowing</h2>



<p>The real reason books remain so popular is that people are seeking knowing.</p>



<p>They&#8217;ve confused knowing with knowledge.</p>



<p>And so continues the cycle of seeking knowledge, finding it, being satisfied for a short time, and returning to a state of longing for more.</p>



<p>Knowing is different from feeling or believing. It goes deeper.<br>Knowing is total.</p>



<p>It leaves no room for doubt because doubt cannot exist in its presence.</p>



<p>It&#8217;s not <strong>sensed</strong>, meaning it cannot be understood through your <strong>physical senses</strong>.</p>



<p>Knowing is aligned with truth. And by truth, I mean the cosmic, unmoving principles that never change no matter who’s looking or when it is being seen.</p>



<p>When you know, you know.</p>



<p>You aren&#8217;t seeking. </p>



<p>You aren&#8217;t proving. </p>



<p>It doesn&#8217;t matter if everybody in the world displayed an alternative perspective. You would rest comfortably in your knowing.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Returning to Presence</h2>



<p>As mentioned earlier, the present is called the present for a reason.<br>It is Creation&#8217;s Gift to Itself, and that includes us.</p>



<p>Knowing only exists in the present.<br>It cannot exist in the past or in the future.</p>



<p>The past and the future are shaped by perception, and often misperception, filtered through who you think you are and what you believe is possible.</p>



<p>Knowing never requires you to <em>think</em>. </p>



<p>To return to the present and to the state of knowing, you must <em>loose</em> the past and all of its causes.</p>



<p>I use the word <em>loose</em> instead of <em>lose</em> because it is too great of jump to go from believing in past events to realizing all of those events are being created now.</p>



<p>By loosening it, so to speak, you allow yourself to see new perspectives and welcome more ease into your life. </p>



<p>No longer will you be at the mercy of others and their circumstances.</p>



<p>It would be as if you unlocked a new world where all is like a beautiful lucid dream that you can see through and manipulate with your energy.</p>



<p>And that&#8217;s just the beginning!</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>The Hidden Curriculum We Were Never Taught</strong></h2>



<p>As soon as you were &#8220;born&#8221;, society has taught you to identify things in their separation. </p>



<p>It made a game of it, giving encouraging cheers, attention, and love to every <em>correct</em> answer you gave about perceiving the separate edges of light. </p>



<p>A spark is no longer a spark, but a pencil, a tree, or a person. </p>



<p>As you begin to recognize and perceive separateness, you identify with it. You start to possess it and assign ownership to all as you see fit.</p>



<p>You relegate yourself to being a body, separate, and living life unconsciously, so much so that you can no longer transcend time and space at will, except during your &#8220;dream&#8221; state, where you often return to consciousness. </p>



<figure class="wp-block-image size-medium"><a href="https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jclay-limits-quote.jpg?x82297"><img decoding="async" width="559" height="559" src="https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jclay-limits-quote-559x559.jpg?x82297" alt="&quot;I am. To define is to limit. To judge is to limit. See not limited. Be not limited.&quot;" class="wp-image-4145" style="aspect-ratio:3/2;object-fit:cover" srcset="https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jclay-limits-quote-559x559.jpg 559w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jclay-limits-quote-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jclay-limits-quote-150x150.jpg 150w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jclay-limits-quote-768x768.jpg 768w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jclay-limits-quote-300x300.jpg 300w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jclay-limits-quote-600x600.jpg 600w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jclay-limits-quote-100x100.jpg 100w, https://jclay.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jclay-limits-quote.jpg 1080w" sizes="(max-width: 559px) 100vw, 559px" /></a><figcaption class="wp-element-caption">Photo by Lane Marie</figcaption></figure>



<p>Furthermore, you have learned to memorize and remember EVERYTHING except the most important of all, your divinity. </p>



<p>Instead of seeing the present as it truly is, you see your memories and your opinions displayed on the big screen. </p>



<p>Once you render judgment on an aspect of reality, you will only experience it as you judged it no matter divine the present truly is.</p>



<p>So the idea is loosen these judgments. Acknowledge that you may not truly know what everything means and the purpose it holds.</p>



<p>By loosening ideas of matter and what matters, you allow the truth to fill the spaces you held between yourself and All There Is. </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The False Mind, The Ego</h2>



<p>The Ego &#8211; a person&#8217;s sense of self-esteem or self-importance.</p>



<p>There are many misperceptions surrounding the concept of the ego.</p>



<p>The ego is the self that is formed as a result of you identifying as separate from reality. </p>



<p>And since the ego wants to continue to <em>be</em>, it will use whatever it can to keep you identifying with it, and to keep you separate for as long as possible.</p>



<p>But no worries.</p>



<p>This is where everything comes together.</p>



<p>If the ego is the self you created in separation, then knowing is the Self that exists only in truth.</p>



<p>And yes, truth is reconciliation &#8211; the remembering of your unity with All That Is.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><strong>Truth Is Experienced, Not Acquired</strong></h2>



<p>You permanently exist in a state of truth.<br>You don&#8217;t step into it, you <em>are</em> it.</p>



<p>It only seems otherwise because you’ve identified with the false.</p>



<p><em>What the false, bro?</em></p>



<p>The ego.</p>



<p>To witness the truth, you must first notice the difference between you and the voice pretending to be you.</p>



<p>Not because separation is real, but because seeing the illusion clearly helps you release it.</p>



<p>Here’s the essence:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>The ego’s entire thought system is unnecessary.</li>



<li>You are not who the ego tells you you are.</li>



<li>Truth is only available in the present, and the present reveals how absurd ego-thoughts truly are.</li>



<li>The moment you recognize truth directly, you start hearing from the highest source &#8230; the one that has always been you.</li>
</ul>



<p>Again, this isn’t something you memorize.</p>



<p>It’s not a technique you “remember” later.</p>



<p><strong>Truth is something you experience.</strong></p>



<p><strong>And once you experience it, even once, nothing is ever the same.</strong></p>



<p>There <em>is</em> a simple way to dissolve the ego and return to truth, however, it isn’t learned through words.</p>



<p>You don’t study it.</p>



<p>You <em>do</em> it.</p>



<p>You <em>feel</em> it.</p>



<p>You <em>become</em> it.</p>



<p>And when you do… you understand why no book could ever give you what presence reveals instantly.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">If You Want to Experience This Shift for Real</h2>



<p>Not in theory.<br>Not as a concept.<br>Not as a quote or a cool idea…</p>



<p>…but as your <strong>alive</strong> reality…</p>



<p>…I’ve created three paths.<br>Each one meets you at a different level of depth and asks a different level of commitment.</p>



<p>Let’s start with the deepest.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">1. HOLY SHIFT Retreat &#8211; The Transformation</h3>



<p>This is the big one.</p>



<p><a href="https://wearethewheel.com/event/holy-shift-a-transformational-retreat/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">HOLY SHIFT</a> is where you step out of the intellectual world and into the <strong>direct experience</strong> of truth.</p>



<p>We dissolve illusion, loosen ego, and open the space for you to remember who you truly are.</p>



<p>You don’t “attend” this retreat.</p>



<p>You <strong>shift</strong>.</p>



<p>It’s the closest thing to stepping outside of the dream and realizing you’ve been awake the whole time.</p>



<p>If you’re called to this work — truly called — this is where to begin.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">2. Private Coaching &#8211; Direct Guidance Into Truth</h3>



<p>For those who want a more personal journey, I offer <a href="https://bio.site/jclay" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">one-on-one coaching</a>.</p>



<p>You get real-time guidance, reflection, and practical application of truth in your daily life.</p>



<p>I walk with you through clarity, alignment, ego dissolving, and returning to the presence you were born with.</p>



<p>If HOLY SHIFT is the spiritual immersion,<br>coaching is the <strong>integration</strong>.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">3. The Music &#8211; Transformation in Rhythm</h3>



<p>And for those who want to begin now…</p>



<p>The music is your entry point.</p>



<p><a href="https://jclay.org/product-category/music/albums/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">My albums</a> carry the frequency of this work.</p>



<p>They’re coded with the principles of truth, presence, and inner peace.</p>



<p>You don’t just listen to them.</p>



<p>You <em>shift</em> with them.</p>



<p>They open your mind, soften the ego, and prepare you for the deeper work ahead.</p>



<p>Start here if you’re ready to feel different… even before you know why.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Final Word</h2>



<p>You won’t find this in any book I’ve ever read.</p>



<p>Not because the books are wrong…</p>



<p>but because truth is too alive to fit on a page.</p>



<p>Truth is presence.</p>



<p>Knowing is presence.</p>



<p>You are presence.</p>



<p>This is why truth is experienced, not acquired. It reveals itself the moment you finally choose to be present</p>



<p>And the moment you stop trying to acquire truth</p>



<p>and start experiencing it…</p>



<p><strong>everything becomes clear.</strong></p>



<p>P.S. If this resonated, choose whichever path feels right for where you are.<br>Your shift begins the moment you say yes to yourself.</p>
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<p>But every time you interfere with this, you delay things further because you miss what’s here for you in this moment.</p>
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<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Mass technology failures aren&#8217;t random and they don&#8217;t happen to &#8220;unlucky&#8221; people. There&#8217;s a reason. When I say &#8220;mass&#8221; I don&#8217;t mean the entire world, I mean most of your technologies at once.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">It sucks&#8230;maybe. But before we get into all of that, let&#8217;s recap.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true"><a href="https://jclay.org/spiritual-lessons-frustrations-part-1/">In Part 1</a> we discovered why you may attract traffic jams into your reality and how they serve you. Then <a href="https://jclay.org/spiritual-lessons-frustrations-part-2/">in Part 2</a>, we simplified relationships in a way that you will never be bothered by difficult people ever again, if you so choose.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Today&#8217;s post is all about why your technology seems to fail often at the wrong possible time.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Let&#8217;s get into it.</span></p>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Examples of Technology Fails</span></h2>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Just to get us on the same page, I want to point out some common electronic failures.</span></p>
<ul>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Siri or Alexa starts randomly talking to you for no reason</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Smoke detectors only detect a low battery</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Vehicle dashboard shows random icons</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Computer is going super duper slow</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Brand-new batteries not lasting long</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Wi-fi does not get a high-five</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Cell phone not making calls</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Smartwatch said nope!</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Light bulbs are dim</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Now, none of the above works forever, and it&#8217;s not expected to.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">So when one or two of these malfunction, no big deal.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">But&#8230;when about 5 or 6 go on the fritz at the same time, it&#8217;s no bueno.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">It feels like you&#8217;re being targeted somehow, but who would go through all of the trouble to sabotage all these little things in your life?</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true"><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f4a1.png" alt="💡" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> You already know the answer I&#8217;m going to give. You would do these things.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">I know you&#8217;re thinking, &#8220;Bro, I would not do that to myself. That&#8217;s dumB with a capital B.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Well, it&#8217;s not for me to judge, and here&#8217;s why you shouldn&#8217;t either.</span></p>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">The Higher Self</span></h2>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Before I get into the explanation, I want to fill you in on some things about yourself that you may not know.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You are a multi-dimensional being.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">That means you exist here and now as you believe yourself to be, but you also exist in other space/times right now. These can include other physical dimensions, spiritual dimensions, and other dimensions we can&#8217;t wrap our minds around yet.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Remember in the previous article</span><span data-preserver-spaces="true">, we spoke about the example of how to realize you are in a new awareness based on the beliefs you now believe? It&#8217;s similar to that.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You make a decision and then your reality bends to reflect the nature of that decision even though moments before, your world was totally different.</span></p>
<p>So it&#8217;s more like your consciousness hovered over the new reality even those the previous one still exists.</p>
<p>Still with me?</p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">A little higher up (and somehow inner), you have what&#8217;s referred to as a higher self. You&#8217;ve embodied this self many times. </span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Some of the times you have been aware of and other times you haven&#8217;t.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">When there&#8217;s been an emergency and you did some stuff that can&#8217;t be fully explained logically&#8230;higher self.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">When you had a magical day where nothing bothered you even though there were plenty of opportunities to be bothered&#8230;higher self.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Even when you get a deeper understanding of something suddenly&#8230;higher self.</span></p>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">The Relationship Between You and Your Higher Self</span></h2>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">We live in a 3D world. 3D is 3 dimensional or 3 dimensions (height, width, depth).</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You exist in those 3, but also in one part of time&#8230;.the present. You can believe you travel to the past and the future in your mind, but physically, you are always here now.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Your higher self on the other hand that isn&#8217;t tethered to physical reality in the same way, lives in one part of physical reality (you) and more parts of time reality.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">It&#8217;s like they are 3D+ from a different perspective (past, present, future, all). You can even say 4D, 5D, or more.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">I won&#8217;t get into the specifics of all of that yet. The important thing to note is that your higher self has a higher &amp; better perspective of what&#8217;s to come for you.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">And you are always being guided toward that more enjoyable reality in the most optimal way possible.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true"><strong>Site note:</strong> Sometimes people confuse God with the Higher Self. It&#8217;s not wrong to do because technically your Higher Self is closer to God vibrationally speaking&#8230;but also depending on <a href="https://jclay.org/does-evil-exist/">Who you believe God Is</a>.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">The word </span><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">God</span></em><span data-preserver-spaces="true"> also sounds like </span><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Guide</span></em><span data-preserver-spaces="true"> and your higher self is also a guide if you allow yourself to be guided.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Your higher self speaks to you in many ways: from the gentle whispers of inspiration, the effervescence of joy, the warmth of good feeling, the serenity of peacefulness, to the profound clarity of inspired thoughts.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">It&#8217;s all your higher self gently guiding you towards actions to take or feelings to embrace, illuminating your path with purpose and clarity.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">So when you hear phrases like, &#8220;Order my steps Lord&#8221; or &#8220;Jesus take the wheel&#8221; it&#8217;s an acknowledgment that you don&#8217;t know all and that you&#8217;re willing to be guided.</span></p>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Trust</span></h2>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">This brings us to trust.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">For the relationship between you and your higher self to work properly, you have to trust it.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">It&#8217;s not like you&#8217;re trusting a third party that you know nothing about. <strong>Your higher self is another part of you.</strong> Your higher self wants you to thrive because it&#8217;s in your higher self&#8217;s interest.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">So every situation that you find yourself, is a hand-picked situation just for you. It&#8217;s a shortcut to get you what you want in the fastest way possible.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">But every time you </span><strong><span data-preserver-spaces="true">interfere</span></strong><span data-preserver-spaces="true"> with this, you delay things further because you miss what&#8217;s here for you in this moment.</span></p>
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<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">So your higher self must try again and again and again and again and again.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Sometimes it&#8217;s tough when you&#8217;ve encased yourself in fear, doubt, and worry. You&#8217;re almost unable to hear your higher self.</span></p>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">The Part That Your Failing Technology Plays</span></h2>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">I&#8217;m sure you see where this is going now.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">When your technology fails, your higher self is saying, &#8220;STOP! Take a breath.&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">That may seem like a lot of work for a simple message but </span><a class="editor-rtfLink" href="https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/jclay/just-breathe" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">don&#8217;t underestimate the power of taking a breath</span></a><span data-preserver-spaces="true">.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">There are many gifts in the present. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s called the present.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You can only experience (or in-sperience) those gifts when you are present.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">The present moment when free of all of your judgements is real. Everything else is not. Be real.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">The situation or circumstance you are encountering right now has a benefit to you. You may not know what this benefit is until many now-moments later,  but the benefit will always be here if you allow it to be.</span></p>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Key Points</span></h2>
<p>So as you go about your day and possibly explore this website further, remember these 3 things.</p>
<ol>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Listen to your higher self. Your higher self knows more about you than you do.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Never assume that a perceived inconvenience is a bad thing.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Enjoy every moment. <strong>That&#8217;s your true purpose</strong>.</span></li>
</ol>
<p>I hope you&#8217;ve enjoyed this 3-part series.</p>
<p>Comment below if you have any questions.</p>
<p>Last, considering sharing this with the masses. But before you do, check in with your higher self.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://jclay.org/blog/spiritual-lessons-frustrations-part-3/">Part 3: Spiritual Lessons from Everyday Frustrations: Technology Fails</a> appeared first on <a href="https://jclay.org">JClay</a>.</p>
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<p>Today, it's all about dealing with difficult people and the role they play in you becoming the greatest version of yourself that you've ever experienced.</p>
<p>The challenges that come along with dealing with difficult people are quite different from those discovered within and amongst traffic.</p>
<p>If it wasn't for difficult people, life may not be so difficult.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://jclay.org/blog/spiritual-lessons-frustrations-part-2/">Part 2: Spiritual Lessons from Everyday Frustrations: Difficult People</a> appeared first on <a href="https://jclay.org">JClay</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This article was written by JClay, the spiritual rapper and healer. Visit <a href="https://jclay.org">JClay</a> for more wisdom, music, and insights.</p>
<p><a href="https://jclay.org/spiritual-lessons-frustrations-part-1/"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Previously on JClay.org</span></a><span data-preserver-spaces="true">, we talked about handling traffic jams like a pro and what they may signify in your life. </span><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Today, it&#8217;s all about dealing with difficult people and the role they play in you becoming the greatest version of yourself that you&#8217;ve ever experienced.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">By these &#8220;difficult people&#8221;, I&#8217;m referring to those people who knowingly and unknowingly find creative ways to irk you &#8230; the ones that force you to take a deep breath &#8230; and the ones that rub you the wrong way, instead of, rub you the right way. </span></p>
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<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Meet The Difficults</span></h2>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">The challenges that come along with dealing with difficult people are quite different from those discovered within and amongst traffic.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Yes, traffic is caused by people, but mostly it&#8217;s by people you don&#8217;t know.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Difficult people, however, come in all shapes and forms as friends and strangers, as loved ones and enemies, and even as co-workers and business partners. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f62e.png" alt="😮" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">If it wasn&#8217;t for difficult people, life may not be so difficult.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">This is true. What is not true, however, is your &#8220;innocent&#8221; role in the matter.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">In many instances, you have been the difficult one to others and yourself&#8230;but more on that later.</span></p>
<h3><span data-preserver-spaces="true">What makes a person difficult?</span></h3>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">If you were to break down the words &#8220;difficult&#8221;, you would have &#8220;diff&#8221; and &#8220;cult&#8221; joined by &#8220;I&#8221;.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">And so, my definition would be &#8211;</span><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true"> a </span></em><strong><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">diff</span></em></strong><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">erent </span></em><strong><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">cult</span></em></strong><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">ure that </span></em><strong><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">I</span></em></strong><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true"> witness</span></em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">. In no way does this definition have a negative connotation.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">But let&#8217;s see what others say.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">According to </span><a class="editor-rtfLink" href="https://www.morningcoach.com/blog/what-makes-a-difficult-person" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">MorningCoach</span></a><span data-preserver-spaces="true">, difficult people are those who:</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ol>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">view everything as a competition.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">like to place blame on others.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">are usually close-minded.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">like to argue with others.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">are prone to outbursts.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">love to judge others.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">never compromise.</span></li>
</ol>
</li>
</ol>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">In many ways, I agree. This is society&#8217;s definition of difficult. And if I&#8217;m being honest with myself, I&#8217;ve dabbled in each of these behaviors upon a time.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Have you?</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">The answer is relevant because I&#8217;ve often wondered if people met themselves, would they like being around themselves?</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Could you honestly be in your own presence 24/7?</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Many seek escape on an hourly basis so they won&#8217;t have to deal with themselves and their thoughts.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Still, let&#8217;s play out this scenario. Let&#8217;s say that as you are now, you physically cloned yourself and had to interact with yourself all day long.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Would you find yourself judging yourself as judgy?</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Would you become close-minded to how close-minded you are toward yourself?</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Will the narcissistic behavior be apparent in that you want what you want more than the other you wants what the-other-you wants?</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">What I love about MorningCoach&#8217;s definition is that those with that behavior are displaying the same behavior by calling it out. I&#8217;ll explain.</span></p>
<p><a href="https://jclay.org/toxic/">How To Be Around Toxic Family &amp; Friends</a></p>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">The Mirror</span></h2>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">The hard truth is that everyone is a mirror to everyone else.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">When I look at you, I may see confidence. When the person next to me sees you, she may see timidity, which is a fun word to say.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">She and I would both be correct in what we see because we can only see through the filter of our beliefs.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">I can only see you for what I am. And what I am not, I know not of.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Let&#8217;s give an example.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Have you ever heard a new interesting word or phrase and thought, &#8220;Where did that come from?&#8221; Then the following days, you hear it multiple times from multiple sources.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You may think to yourself, &#8220;How does everyone know this phrase and I just heard of it? Was it always in existence?&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">So you google it only to find that the word or phrase has been commonly said for many years. </span><strong><span data-preserver-spaces="true">This is NOT a coincidence. </span></strong></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">This is a sign that you&#8217;ve stepped into a new level of awareness (a new reality).</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Your beliefs changed, so what you now mirror has changed all perfectly in balance with what you dictated as the experience of your awareness as the master of your reality.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">So let&#8217;s revisit MorningCoach&#8217;s definition from this </span><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">mirrored</span></em><span data-preserver-spaces="true"> perception.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Let&#8217;s bring back their definition.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">&#8230;A difficult person is one who:</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ol>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">views everything as a competition.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">likes to place blame on others.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">likes to argue with others.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">is usually close-minded.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">loves to judge others.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">is prone to outbursts.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">never compromises.</span></li>
</ol>
</li>
</ol>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">From the mirrored perception, you are exactly like the so-named difficult person in that:</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ol>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You are comparing yourself to or competing with that person.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You are blaming that person for being difficult when that blaming can be seen as difficult for them.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You want to be right and so you dislike when that person argues with what you&#8217;ve said.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You are not willing to understand their viewpoint, instead just wanting yours to be understood.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You are judging them for how they are being.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You are having an in-burst of negative feelings toward that person.</span></li>
<li><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You don&#8217;t want to change how you feel about them and see them in a new light.</span></li>
</ol>
</li>
</ol>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">How Does This Help Me Deal with Difficult People?</span></h2>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Great question.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Hopefully, you are starting to realize that you are the difficult person that you interact with daily.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">You are the one that gives meaning to the world around you. If someone were to ask you what&#8217;s the meaning of life, your unconscious answer based on your habits would be, &#8220;To be burdened by difficulty.&#8221; Or something similar.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Dealing with a so-called person of a different culture is a matter of dealing with yourself in understanding why you feel the way you feel.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">For instance, let&#8217;s say you have a problem with people leaving you. To &#8220;protect&#8221; yourself, you may dismiss people out of your life prematurely thus perpetuating the cycle you don&#8217;t enjoy&#8230;leading you toward further un-enjoyment.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">A better way would be to play the Why game so that you get to the root belief that you have allowed to show you a world of disbelief. Here&#8217;s how it would go in this situation.</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Why do I hate when people transition out of my life?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Because it makes me feel alone.</span></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Why does it feel bad to be alone?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Because it brings me closer to having to be with myself and I don&#8217;t like myself.</span></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Why don&#8217;t I like myself?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Because I made bad decisions that I can&#8217;t forgive.</span></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Why are those bad decisions?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Because I should&#8217;ve known better.</span></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">How could I have known better?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Because I was warned.</span></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Why didn&#8217;t the warning matter?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Because it felt alive to act out my decision.</span></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">So do I regret the action or the consequences of my action?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Neither, I am happy about the experience and would happily do it again.</span></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Then why can&#8217;t you forgive yourself?</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 80px;"><em><span data-preserver-spaces="true">I guess I can.</span></em></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Many answers could have come from this and perhaps they did. The point is to play this game for yourself and go in as many directions as needed to reach the root.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Peace is here, it&#8217;s just been covered in judgments that we&#8217;ve ignorantly made in our youth that we have yet to re-explore.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">So the more you deal with yourself, the less triggered you become by the words and actions of others.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Before you know it, you will be that happy person who laughs a warm and hearty laugh in every situation&#8230;that is until electronics and gadgets you depend on break down on you for no reason.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">But there actually is a reason.</span></p>
<h2><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Technology Fails</span></h2>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">Ahh, you know the drill. This article has become lengthy so we&#8217;ll conclude this topic next week.</span></p>
<p><span data-preserver-spaces="true">As always, have some peace. It&#8217;s delicious.</span></p>
<p>The post <a href="https://jclay.org/blog/spiritual-lessons-frustrations-part-2/">Part 2: Spiritual Lessons from Everyday Frustrations: Difficult People</a> appeared first on <a href="https://jclay.org">JClay</a>.</p>
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<p>Do traffic jams make you rage? Rude people ruin your day? Technology got you ready to throw your computer? You might be suffering from a (hilarious) spiritual ailment...</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://jclay.org/blog/spiritual-lessons-frustrations-part-1/">Part 1: Spiritual Lessons from Everyday Frustrations: Traffic Jams, Difficult People, &#038; Technology Fails</a> appeared first on <a href="https://jclay.org">JClay</a>.</p>
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<p>Is this you &#8230;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">&#8230;when stuck in traffic jams:</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li style="text-align: left;">&#8220;Why does this keep happening to me?&#8221;</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">&#8220;There&#8217;s no way this is is possible.&#8221;</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">&#8220;Move <strong>*expletive*</strong>!&#8221;</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">&#8230;when dealing with difficult people:</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li style="text-align: left;">&#8220;Do you not read body language?&#8221;</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">&#8220;How are you this dumb?&#8221;</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">&#8220;REALLY?&#8221;</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">&#8230;when technology fails:</p>
<ul>
<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
<li style="text-align: left;">&#8220;God, why has thou forsaken me?&#8221;</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">&#8220;The one time I need this.&#8221;</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">&#8220;This is unbelievable.&#8221;</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>Then perhaps you&#8217;re suffering from:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Chronic Impatience Syndrome (CIS):</strong> Symptoms include uncontrollable sighing, eye rolls, and muttering colorful language out of your window.</li>
<li><strong>Acute Intolerance Disorder (AID):</strong> Marked by sudden loss of composure, questioning the intelligence of strangers, and slapping people out of nowhere.</li>
<li><strong>Technological Tantrum Tendency (TTT):</strong> Characterized by explosive outbursts, a belief that devices have a personal vendetta, and a destroying of property.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>DISCLAIMER: These are not actual medical conditions&#8230; but let&#8217;s be honest, they might as well be.</strong></p>
<p>In this article, we are going to look at the cause and cure for each of these. More specifically, we are going to look at how YOU are causing each of these and how you can cure it all for good.</p>
<p><a href="https://jclay.org/your-mind/">5 Ways to Make Your Mind Serve You</a></p>
<h2>Traffic Jams</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s a beautiful day out. The sun is waving at you and you have finished all of your work for the day. You can&#8217;t wait to get to your next destination and enjoy yourself.</p>
<p>All of a sudden&#8230;BAM, a traffic jam. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f621.png" alt="😡" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> You check your phone&#8217;s map app that shows there was an accident up ahead. There are no other roads to take and so you must wait it out.</p>
<p><strong>What do you do?</strong></p>
<p>You may curse. You might even slam on your horn, but the question remains. Why is this happening?</p>
<p>At one time or another, you may have asked this as well as, &#8220;<em>Why me? How am I always attracting these types of situations?</em>&#8221;</p>
<p>But tell me this&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>&#8230;Have you ever cared to listen to the answer?</strong></p>
<p>The answer is the most important thing to you at this point. Always listen for it.</p>
<h3>If you were to listen, it may go something like this.</h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">ANSWERER<br />
Nothing is happening to you.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">YOU<br />
Yeah right.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">ANSWERER<br />
It&#8217;s happening &#8220;for&#8221; you.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">YOU<br />
How Answerer&#8230;how?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">ANSWERER<br />
What have you said you&#8217;ve always wanted?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">YOU<br />
What, peace? Simplicity? Ease?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">ANSWERER<br />
Yes, all of those.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">YOU<br />
How does that get me any of this?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">ANSWERER<br />
It&#8217;s easy to have peace when situations appear peaceful. But the truly peaceful demonstrate peace even when situations appear war-like.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">YOU<br />
That&#8217;s clever, but I&#8217;m not ready for all of that yet.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">ANSWERER<br />
You are and so it happens.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">YOU<br />
You mean to tell me that if I pass this test and be peaceful, then I won&#8217;t experience anymore traffic jams?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">ANSWERER<br />
I&#8217;m saying that if you are peaceful, you won&#8217;t care if there&#8217;s a traffic jam or not.</p>
<p>And so you decide to try it.<br />
The next day you are excited to welcome the traffic jam.<br />
Sadly, no traffic jam comes.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">YOU<br />
The one time I wanted a traffic jam, there wasn&#8217;t one. I was ready to practice. What gives?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">ANSWERER<br />
You stated you didn&#8217;t want to be stuck in traffic.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">YOU<br />
Yeah, but&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">ANSWERER<br />
First you were angry because there was traffic, then you were upset because there wasn&#8217;t. What changed?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">YOU<br />
My mindset.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">ANSWERER<br />
Ah haaaa.</p>
<p>And so, you live happily ever after&#8230;that is,<br />
until you encounter a problem person. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f631.png" alt="😱" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<h2>Difficult People</h2>
<p>Not so fast. This article is getting lengthy and you should reflect on the above.</p>
<p>And when you&#8217;re ready, <a href="https://jclay.org/spiritual-lessons-frustrations-part-2/">here&#8217;s part 2</a>.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://jclay.org/blog/spiritual-lessons-frustrations-part-1/">Part 1: Spiritual Lessons from Everyday Frustrations: Traffic Jams, Difficult People, &#038; Technology Fails</a> appeared first on <a href="https://jclay.org">JClay</a>.</p>
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<p>What is true can never be false. What is false can sometimes seem true, but it can never be. Since falseness is inconsistent with itself, it has no foundation of truth to stand on. Yet what happens if what you regarded as truth does not pass this equation?</p>
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<p>What if I told you that you have more control over your experience than you realize and that it&#8217;s all a simple math equation that you already have the answer to? Would you solve it? Let&#8217;s talk spiritual math.</p>
<p>I will attempt to keep this article as simple as possible so that a non-Math person can understand and apply these spiritual math concepts.</p>
<p>I will also cite sources where you can go deeper into math principles if you so choose.</p>
<h2>What is Spiritual Math as opposed to regular Math?</h2>
<p>Short for Mathematics, Math is a universal language and a fundamental tool for understanding the physical world around us. It is the study of numbers, quantities, and shapes, and their relationships to one another.</p>
<p>Math is used to describe and model the behavior of natural phenomena, from the smallest particles in the universe to the largest structures in the cosmos. It is the foundation of science, technology, engineering, and finance, and plays a crucial role in almost every aspect of our daily lives.</p>
<p>Similarly, Spiritual Math is a term that refers to the use of mathematical concepts and principles in exploring spiritual or metaphysical ideas. It recognizes that math is not just a tool for understanding the physical world, but also has the potential to illuminate deeper truths about the nature of reality and our place in it.</p>
<p>Spiritual Math can involve the use of geometry, <a href="https://jclay.org/uses/genekeys">numerology</a>, and other mathematical techniques to explore concepts such as the interconnectedness of all things, the nature of consciousness, and the relationship between the material and spiritual realms.</p>
<p>It can be seen as a way to bridge the gap between science and spirituality and to provide a language for exploring the mysteries of the universe beyond what can be perceived through our physical senses.</p>
<p>Are you ready to add more to your life or would you simply like to remain equal to the negativity that seems to exist?</p>
<h2>0 and 1</h2>
<p>0 and 1 are the basis of all computing systems and operations, including circuitry. Often referred to as the binary number system, 1 and 0 represent two choices, which can be displayed in a myriad of ways&#8230;yes &amp; no, true &amp; false, on &amp; off, ok &amp; cancel. You get the idea.</p>
<p>I won&#8217;t get into the details of binary, but if you want to learn more, check this article on <a href="https://www.lifewire.com/how-to-read-binary-4692830" target="_blank" rel="noopener">How To Read Binary</a>.</p>
<p>As I said earlier, 1 and 0 can be used to represent true and false, which means only one of these numbers is true, 1.</p>
<p>0 does not exist. It&#8217;s imaginary.</p>
<p>Mathematically speaking, since zero is both nonpositive and its own square root, then zero can be considered imaginary.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;m speaking logically. If 1 represents true, then zero represents false.</p>
<p>They can never be equal. And if both existed equally, we would not.</p>
<p>What is true can never be false. What is false can sometimes seem true, but it can never be.</p>
<p>Since falseness is inconsistent with itself, it has no foundation of truth to stand on. It is imaginary.</p>
<p>Truth on the other hand, or 1, is always true no matter what.</p>
<p>This is the basis of spiritual math.</p>
<p>If something truly exists, it shares the same properties as 1 or as truth.</p>
<p>Now we can begin to understand the expressions, &#8220;All are 1&#8221; and &#8220;Everything is one.&#8221;</p>
<p>So what is 0 really?</p>
<p>0 is more like &#8220;not 1&#8221;.</p>
<p>For example, if 1 represents all that is right, good, true, holy, and magnificent, then what is its opposite?</p>
<p>It has no opposite, but more on that later.</p>
<p>For now, we&#8217;ll accept the usual representation of the opposition, which would be considered wrong, sinful, false, unholy, and weak.</p>
<p>So for example, if something is &#8220;not good&#8221;, many would say it&#8217;s bad or sinful.</p>
<p>In other words, &#8220;not good&#8221; is to sinful as &#8220;not 1&#8221; is to 0.</p>
<p>What should begin to be clear now is that what is &#8220;not&#8221; is not. “Not” is not real and you shouldn&#8217;t let the idea of what&#8217;s not real take up real space in your mind.</p>
<h2>The Introduction of 0</h2>
<p>Quick history lesson.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard to say exactly when the concept of 0 was introduced into the world&#8217;s mathematics. Just know it wasn&#8217;t there from the beginning.</p>
<p>Some say it was first introduced in India around 500 AD. Others say zero dates back to the 7th century in a manuscript called the Bakhshali manuscript that was eventually transmitted to the Islamic world, where it was further developed and eventually introduced to Europe in the 12th century. And still, others say zero was first recorded in Mesopotamia around the year 3 B.C.</p>
<p>Regardless of when it was first brought into awareness, zero has had a profound impact on the development of mathematics, as it enabled the creation of the decimal system, which is still used today.</p>
<p>The introduction of zero also paved the way for the development of algebra and calculus, which would later revolutionize the fields of science and engineering.</p>
<p>And as such, the concept of zero is now considered to be one of the most important contributions to human civilization, as it has had a profound impact on the way we understand and interact with the world around us.</p>
<p>All of this from a false/imaginary number.</p>
<p>Is this to say that algebra and calculus are also false? That&#8217;s not for me to say.<br />
I will say, however, applying this technique to the words above, we get some interesting combinations.</p>
<h2>Understanding &#8220;Not 1&#8221;</h2>
<p>To put this in full perspective, not 1 can be represented as:</p>
<ul>
<li>Not complete</li>
<li>Not good</li>
<li>Not truth</li>
<li>Not real</li>
<li>Not rich</li>
<li>Not life</li>
</ul>
<p>Or:</p>
<ul>
<li>Incomplete</li>
<li>Sinful</li>
<li>False</li>
<li>Imaginary</li>
<li>Poor</li>
<li>Death</li>
</ul>
<p>By making &#8220;not 1&#8221; a thing, many are able to react to it as if it is real and engage with this non-realness on a regular basis.</p>
<p>By this same logic, people are able to react to &#8220;not good&#8221; as if it were a real thing claiming that &#8220;sin is real&#8221;.</p>
<p>In the same way that the concept of zero has spawned algebra, calculus, engineering, science, and more&#8230;.the concept of sin or evil deeds has spawned sickness, death, judgment, mental illness, etc.</p>
<p>This may be a stretch, but then again, it may &#8220;not&#8221;.</p>
<p>That is the power of &#8220;not 1&#8221;. It forces you to look at what is not there and experience it as if it was.</p>
<h2>Understanding 1</h2>
<p>We see what &#8220;not 1&#8221; is, but what exactly is 1?</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the irony. 1 cannot be fully understood alone, which is also why it&#8217;s not good for man to be alone.</p>
<p>To really understand and know anything, you have to live it. And what better way than to live in oneness?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not possible to live in none-ness or zero-ness because then nothing would exist. But with oneness, all things are the same. I&#8217;ll explain.</p>
<p>Anything that means anything to you, you have given meaning to it.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll repeat. Anything that means anything to you, YOU have given meaning to it.</p>
<p>Now, look around you. From your body to the room that you&#8217;re in, you&#8217;ve given some sort of meaning and even value to it.</p>
<p>Without you giving the world meaning, it would in a sense to you be formless and void. A human body would just be clay and a building would just be sticks and stones.</p>
<p>Yet even those comparisons have meaning that you have also given.</p>
<p>Because of your core rootedness in truth, you have the ability to imagine and even use this imagination to project meaning onto that which has none.</p>
<h3>Living In Oneness</h3>
<p>When oneness is truly lived, you recognize that what is on the inside is also reflected/seen on the outside.</p>
<p>However, when oneness is falsely lived, what you see seems imbalanced or unequal.</p>
<p>The reason is that the oneness law is inescapable. <strong>It is what you are.</strong></p>
<p>Even in an imagined conflicting world of 1s and 0s, you still live in oneness because the laws &amp; rules you apply to others, you are also subjected to.</p>
<p>1 = 1. Always.</p>
<p>1 represents All. And within All lies even the possibility/illusion of not, or 0.</p>
<p>This is why you could judge someone as naive or ignorant when they don&#8217;t believe what you believe, and yet in this misbelief, they don&#8217;t share the consequence that would befall you, had you lived their beliefs.</p>
<p>This is also why you may perceive certain friends as lucky or able to get away with what you could never. Your perceived oneness within does equal another&#8217;s perceived oneness within. Each are mixed with a combination of 1s and 0s.</p>
<p>Even though neither of you may be living 100% aligned with truth, both of you are still experiencing aspects of the law of oneness in your own way.</p>
<p>So what is within always appears without.</p>
<h2>Opposite vs Equal</h2>
<p>You may have heard that you live in a world of duality. Binary language is a representation of duality meaning there are two sides to all. But as I said earlier, 1 has no opposite. This is because it has no other sides. It&#8217;s all-encompassing. 1 = 1 = 1 = 1 = 1, forever and ever.</p>
<p>Modern math represents opposite numbers as their negative counterpart. So it would claim that the opposite of 1 is -1.</p>
<p>However, -1 is also an imaginary number. It can&#8217;t be represented physically.</p>
<p>If an imaginary number is not real then it is equal to every other imaginary number in its not-realness.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s imaginary is equal to what&#8217;s imaginary.</p>
<p>To claim that something is opposite another is another matter indeed.</p>
<p>An opposite must be as powerful as the other to be considered a true opposite.</p>
<p>One wouldn&#8217;t judge another as their enemy unless they believe this person is as capable or even more capable than them.</p>
<p>Mathematically speaking, stating that 1 = 1 or 0 = 0 is a true representation of equal and opposite.</p>
<p>Saying that 1 ≠ 0 is not representing opposition or equality, but just stating the obvious.</p>
<p>So while you&#8217;re continuing to give parts of your world a negative meaning, recognize that these parts or circumstances should have no power over you because firstly, you&#8217;ve given meaning to it thus making you its maker. And secondly, what has no power or what has imaginary power shies away when in the presence of true power, you.</p>
<h2>1 Division</h2>
<p>Sounds like a singing group, huh?</p>
<p>Now that we understand the all-encompassing nature of 1, what would happen if 1 could be split?</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s divide.</p>
<p>Why divide? Because again, to truly understand something, you have to live it, being within it and it within you.</p>
<p>To keep it simple, we&#8217;ll divide 1 evenly.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll say 1 divided by 2.</p>
<p>Commonly in math, 1 divided by 2 is considered one half, but let&#8217;s use the symbol &#8230; ½.</p>
<p>But actually, it&#8217;s ½ + ½. The other half didn&#8217;t magically disappear. It&#8217;s just that for some reason, mathematicians were focused on the subset.</p>
<p>So now we have 2 equal parts of ½.</p>
<p>Since we know that 1 is considered good, let&#8217;s restate that. 1 is good.</p>
<p>Now we split 1 (or good) into 2.</p>
<p>You now have 2 parts good. Yet each one represents half of good.</p>
<p>If we took one of the halves and regarded it as whole, what is it made up as?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s still good because, from the perspective of all of good, it&#8217;s half of itself.</p>
<p>Some would even say it&#8217;s just half good. To which I would ask, then what&#8217;s the other half made up as?</p>
<p>This is where things get confusing to individual minds, similar to halved minds.</p>
<p>It believes that part of itself is missing or cut off simply because it chooses to be halved or not connected.</p>
<p>So instead of regarding itself as whole, it seeks another half.</p>
<p>Now it&#8217;s getting interesting.</p>
<p>But let&#8217;s say this ½ judges its other ½ as being bad.</p>
<p><strong>From the judgment of the first ½, this half now unknowingly sees itself as bad simply because, ½ = ½.</strong></p>
<p>And since what&#8217;s bad could never equal what&#8217;s good, the self-judged divides again to search for ½ good, but each half is halved making it a fourth, an eighth, a sixteenth, and so on.</p>
<p>Are you with me?</p>
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<h3>Plugging In Real Values</h3>
<p>Let&#8217;s look at this another way.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Good = ½Good + ½Good</p>
<p>If we subtract ½Good from both sides, we get&#8230;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Good &#8211; ½Good = ½Good</p>
<p>So:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">½Good = Good &#8211; ½Good</p>
<p>Since it&#8217;s getting confusing, let&#8217;s give these all names to simplify.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll name Good as Christ. The first ½Good would be Adam and the other ½Good would be Eve.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s list all the equations we can to represent this using basic math.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Christ = Adam + Eve<br />
Adam = Christ &#8211; Eve<br />
Eve = Christ &#8211; Adam<br />
Adam = Eve</p>
<p>Now Adam and Eve both feel incomplete. They&#8217;ve been cut off in a sense from each other. Yet from the perspective of Christ, nothing has been lost. Christ still has all parts of himself.</p>
<p>From the perspectives of Adam and Eve, something is not right.</p>
<p>So Adam attempts to join with Eve and the two feel good together.</p>
<p>Then Eve does something Adam does not agree with and he judges her as bad. But Adam equals Eve? So Adam has unknowingly or unconsciously judged himself as bad.</p>
<p>Since they are all that is, they still mix and mingle. They have two kids together.</p>
<p>From the perspective of Christ, nothing has been lost.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Christ = Adam + Eve + Child 1 + Child 2</p>
<p>It may seem like Christ has gained. This is true, but not in the way you think. The energy or value of Christ is still the same, however, the energy that makes up Christ has shifted and new possibilities are formed, but still all within the 1.</p>
<p>Now from the perspective of Adam, he may believe he&#8217;s greater than the others.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam &lt; Christ</p>
<p>Yet, Adam believes:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam &gt; Eve<br />
Adam &gt; Child 1<br />
Adam &gt; Child 2</p>
<p>But truly:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam = Eve</p>
<p>And now also:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam = Child 1<br />
Adam = Child 2</p>
<p>But because Adam believes he is greater, then he unknowingly or unconsciously made others greater than he in his mind. So to even the playing field or to even out the equation, he has thoughts of attempting to belittle the &#8220;others&#8221;, not realizing that they are also himself.</p>
<p>This cycle repeats and repeats for each.</p>
<p>Yet Christ is still a happy 1.</p>
<p>And within, the perceived individuals are not ready to accept that the sum of all its parts equals the whole.</p>
<p>In other words, you plus me plus everyone else in existence make up this oneness.</p>
<p>And since all the parts are equal, having a good life is as simple as recognizing the good in all. Because to judge one is to judge yourself.</p>
<p>To state that another way, since you&#8217;ve given meaning to all you see, you&#8217;re really only seeing yourself. And to then judge against what you see, would directly be judging against yourself.</p>
<h2>Bad Math or better yet &#8216;Not Math&#8217;</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s easy to believe that you&#8217;re greater than another because of a misinterpretation of the following equation.</p>
<p>Remember how:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Christ = Adam + Eve</p>
<p>Then to solve for Adam would be:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam = Christ &#8211; Eve</p>
<p>The misinterpretation comes from the above. Adam may feel that if he gets rid of Eve, then he will be equal to Christ.</p>
<p>But again remember that since Adam is equal to Eve, we can substitute Adam for Eve. So to represent this perceived equation accurately would be:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam = Christ &#8211; Adam</p>
<p>From Adam&#8217;s perspective, he would lose himself in the process.</p>
<p>But since 1 is always 1, Adam would only imagine that he&#8217;s lost himself.</p>
<p>Again, from the viewpoint of Christ, the equation is still balanced, we see that:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Christ = Adam + Adam</p>
<p>Going back to this equation and looking at it differently, we have:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam = Christ &#8211; Eve</p>
<p>Now Adam attempts to remove Eve and&#8230;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">Adam &#8211; Eve = Christ &#8211; Eve &#8211; Eve</p>
<p>Since Adam equals Eve, we have:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">0 = Christ</p>
<p>Since Christ represents 1, we see how untrue this statement is:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;">0 = 1</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t and it won&#8217;t. Yet that is what happens when you attempt to go against a fellow self.</p>
<h2><s>Takeaways</s> One</h2>
<p>What can be concluded from this?</p>
<ol>
<li>We truly are all connected.</li>
<li>If you judge me, you judge yourself.</li>
<li>If you praise me, you praise yourself.</li>
<li>Negativity has no power because it&#8217;s imaginary.</li>
<li>Division is impossible because all parts of the 1 still remain.</li>
<li>What I see has always just been me, so why don&#8217;t I start seeing through the eyes of the 1.</li>
</ol>
<p>If you&#8217;ve enjoyed this, <a href="https://jclay.org/gene-keys-review/">here&#8217;s another fun thing with numbers tailored to exactly who you are</a>.</p>
<p>Last, check out <a href="https://songwhip.com/jclay/123" target="_blank" rel="noopener">this rap song 123</a> which represents both the halved side and then the whole side as outlined in this article.</p>
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		<title>5 Books on Spirituality You Should Read</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Nov 2021 12:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Reading is more than just a pastime, it&#8217;s a great activity that can change your life. An article published by Aleteia emphasized that a good book is the key to [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>Reading is more than just a pastime, it&#8217;s a great activity that can change your life. An article published by <a href="https://aleteia.org/2020/09/18/reading-good-spiritual-books-is-essential-to-a-joyful-life/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Aleteia</a> emphasized that a good book is the key to leading a joy-filled life. Moreover, it was highlighted that reading books about spirituality can build your character and enlighten your soul.</p>
<p>As such, books are fundamental instruments for individuals who want to deepen their spirituality. In line with that, here are five books that can strengthen your sense of spirituality:</p>
<h2>A Course in Miracles</h2>
<p>A Course in Miracles was written by Helen Schucman in 1976, but it has been making waves across different spiritual practices decades after its first publication. A previous post entitled <a href="https://jclay.org/acim-rap/">The Top &#8220;A Course in Miracles (ACIM)&#8221; Inspired Rap/Hip-Hop Artists</a> emphasizes that this book is so life-changing that it&#8217;s influenced books, films, art pieces, and even rap.</p>
<p>A Course in Miracles has created such an impact because it opens people up to the greatest miracle of all: love. And through reading it, you can gain awareness of love&#8217;s presence and guide yourself towards a united spiritual purpose.</p>
<h2>The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment</h2>
<p>Spirituality teacher Eckhart Tolle is the genius behind this best-selling book that discusses the significance of the present moment. Recognizing how thinking about the past and the future can induce anxiety, Tolle wrote <a href="https://www.scribd.com/audiobook/237843984/The-Power-of-Now-A-Guide-to-Spiritual-Enlightenment" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment</a> to teach people how to embrace the present.</p>
<p>The book&#8217;s simple language, as well as the question and answer format, makes it easy for readers to ease themselves into a new state of mind. This makes it a very effective tool in embracing the now and getting connected to an indestructible essence of your being.</p>
<h2>The Untethered Soul</h2>
<p>If you&#8217;d like to know more about Buddhist principles, then <a href="https://amzn.to/3qOBshn" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Untethered Soul</a> is a good place to start. This book, which was written by Michael A. Singer, explores how the principle of the Middle Way can help you reach a peaceful state of mind.</p>
<p>Through simple and easy-to-follow language, Singer discusses how you can embrace your existence without any force. This philosophy will help you free yourself from any emotions and thoughts that may be weighing you down. By allowing things to just be, you can experience a more elevated and peaceful existence.</p>
<h2>Learned Optimism</h2>
<p>You can deepen your spirituality through the science-backed research studies covered in the book <a href="https://amzn.to/3CnCGT6" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Learned Optimism</a>. In this book, author Martin Seligman discusses the proven benefits of becoming an optimist, such as being more healthy, successful, and happy. Then, the renowned psychologist teaches his readers how to break bad habits and implement new strategies that can enhance their quality of life.</p>
<p>By embracing optimism through these strategies, you can develop a deeper appreciation and understanding of people, love, and life. This will help you serve a more enlightened purpose throughout the human experience.</p>
<h2>Real Magic: Creating Miracles in Everyday Life</h2>
<p>Best-selling author Dr. Wayne Dyer explores a different kind of magic in <a href="https://amzn.to/3Dtre9K" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Real Magic: Creating Miracles in Everyday Life</a>. This book discusses realistic strategies that can help you experience profound miracles.</p>
<p>While these miracles aren&#8217;t the ones you usually see in the movies, they are great life experiences that can help you get past perceptions that have been holding you back. This then allows you to reach a higher level of consciousness where you can experience blessings in your everyday life.</p>
<h2>Summary</h2>
<p>Through these five books, you can learn how to open yourself up to a deeper spiritual practice. It only goes to show that books are valuable tools of knowledge that can help you gain a deeper understanding of love, peace, optimism, miracles, and the present moment.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2021 11:36:53 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Have you ever wondered why you are here and what you are here to do?</p>
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<p>One of the most asked questions people ask themselves is, &#8220;Why am I here?&#8221;</p>
<p>Even asking yourself this question gives a hint toward the answer. In fact, &#8220;why am I here&#8221; answers itself. </p>
<p>To get to the question&#8217;s simplicity, we must pull back some layers of complexity.</p>
<p>I can just give you the answer now (or you can scroll down), but it won&#8217;t be accepted without first pulling back these layers.</p>
<h2>Understanding your Why</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s important that you understand why you&#8217;re asking this. The reason is that you may not really want the answer to this question, but to many other questions. </p>
<p>For now, let&#8217;s explore the two main reasons you may ask, &#8220;Why am I here?&#8221;</p>
<p>The first is out of pure curiosity. In this way, the answer does not really matter. It&#8217;s a question asked at the moment and then let go of in the next.</p>
<p>Surprisingly, when you let go of questions, answers come much faster as opposed to always asking questions.</p>
<p>And since you&#8217;re reading this article, chances are you still have questions.</p>
<p>The second main reason you may ask why you are here comes from a not-so-loving place.</p>
<p>Chances are you are bored with life, find it unfulfilling, and/or completely overwhelmed by it.</p>
<p>You want out!</p>
<p>This is not to be confused with wanting to die, you just want out of your current way of living.</p>
<p>Who would blame you? Not loving life is not living.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s kind of like undying&#8230;you aren&#8217;t dying, yet you won&#8217;t live.</p>
<p>But the fact that you&#8217;re asking this question is HUGE.</p>
<p>Asking, &#8220;Why am I here&#8221; shows signs of life and that you&#8217;re ready for change. </p>
<p>Embrace it and ask yourself again why you are here. </p>
<p>Then let the question go completely knowing deep down you&#8217;ll find your answer (hint: it&#8217;s below). </p>
<h2>Where is &#8220;here&#8221;?</h2>
<p>The &#8220;here&#8221; in the question is one of the most misunderstood parts because even you as the asker don&#8217;t really know what you&#8217;re asking. </p>
<p>For example, &#8220;here&#8221; could mean on earth, in this town, in this relationship, at this job, in this conversation, on this website, in this body, in this skin, at this party, in this time, etc. </p>
<p>You could think you&#8217;re asking for one of the above mentioned, but you&#8217;re really asking for another one of the above mentioned.</p>
<p>I know&#8230;it makes us humans sound confused. This is also true, which is why you understand what I&#8217;m pointing out. </p>
<p><em>But JClay, doesn&#8217;t &#8220;confused&#8221; mean that you don&#8217;t understand?</em> Exactly. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f601.png" alt="😁" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p>Back to &#8220;here&#8221;.</p>
<p>The first step in understanding why you are here is to know the &#8220;here&#8221; that you&#8217;re asking about.</p>
<p>If you want some extra credit, you can play the &#8220;Where&#8217;s here?&#8221; game. It&#8217;s where you ask yourself, &#8220;Where am I?&#8221;</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll probably start with the room that you are in and eventually escalate to your planet. After that, it starts to get tricky, but it&#8217;s a good awareness exercise to realize that you aren&#8217;t where you think you are.</p>
<p>So if you do play the &#8220;Where&#8217;s here?&#8221; game, try to go as far as you can.</p>
<p>And then of course ask yourself again, &#8220;Why am I here?&#8221; with the new awareness of where you think here is.</p>
<h2>Who is &#8220;I&#8221; or who are you?</h2>
<p>If your brain isn&#8217;t tingling yet, it&#8217;s about to.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s talk the &#8220;I&#8221; aka your I-dentity aka your Individuality aka your I-dea of yourself.</p>
<p>Before I go too in-depth, ask yourself right now who you are. </p>
<p>Did answers come up like your name, profession, race, class, etc? </p>
<p>Let&#8217;s say you let go completely of your past, all of it. Who are you right now in this moment? </p>
<p>Your sex may have come into play. But are you just flesh? If so, you would&#8217;ve died with the millions of cells that died from your body today.</p>
<p>Go deeper. Who are you? And with the knowledge that <a href="https://jclay.org/no-death/">you&#8217;re not a body</a>, what are you?</p>
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<p>If you were anything like me, you may have thought that you were your thoughts and emotions? </p>
<p>The problem, however, is that thoughts and emotions come and go, and you always seem to remain even when they&#8217;re gone. </p>
<p>So you&#8217;re not a body, you&#8217;re not your thoughts, and you&#8217;re not your emotions. What the heck are you?</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t say your past either. If you did, go listen to <a href="https://jclay.org/videos/let-go-lyric/">this song</a> right now.</p>
<p>Since your past is gone while you are here, then we can conclude that you&#8217;re not your past either.</p>
<h2>What you truly are</h2>
<p>Let us now answer the questions, &#8220;Who am I?&#8221; and &#8220;What am I?&#8221;</p>
<p>Everything you perceive outside of yourself seems to have meaning.</p>
<p>What may not yet be realized is that you gave it all the meaning that it has.</p>
<p>This explains why some of your friends may like partying while you do not (or vice versa).</p>
<p>It&#8217;s because it has no meaning to you, or you place no value in it.</p>
<p>You are what gives value to the valueless. </p>
<p>In order to give value, you must be valuable. </p>
<p>In this, your identity is shared with all. You&#8217;ve given value to that you want to value and thus your own perceived value is reflected back to you.</p>
<p>You are not apart from anything. In other words, you are one with everything.</p>
<p>This is why <a href="https://jclay.org/tag/mindset/">mindset</a> is everything.</p>
<p>That which you believe about a person or thing will be made real to you because you gave realness to it through your thoughts. You &#8220;realized&#8221; it. </p>
<p>Everyone is not ready to accept responsibility for their own thoughts. But once you do, you&#8217;ll see that life was always everything you thought it would be.</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s your purpose? Whatever you&#8217;ve done on purpose. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f601.png" alt="😁" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<h2>The answer to, &#8220;Why am I here?&#8221;</h2>
<p>To answer once and for all, &#8220;Why am I here&#8221;, let&#8217;s restate the big reveal from above.</p>
<p><strong>You are not apart from anything&#8230;you are one with everything.</strong></p>
<p>You believe that you are a separate being, but the truth is that you are one with all existence.</p>
<p>By asking yourself why you are here, you are siding with the false notion that you could be separate. And so in this asking, you are denying yourself yourself. </p>
<p>To ask, &#8220;Why am I here?&#8221; is to already have the answer.</p>
<p>The &#8220;I&#8221; is &#8220;here&#8221; because you&#8217;ve attempted to separate yourself from reality by asking a question that is not possible.</p>
<p>The idea of separateness is the cause of all despair and fear. </p>
<p>&#8220;Why am I here?&#8221; You are not, well at least not how you believe yourself to be.</p>
<p>You are.</p>
<p>You are not a body or thing.</p>
<p>You are.</p>
<p>You are not a thought or emotion.</p>
<p>You are.</p>
<p>To say that you are anything is to place a limit on yourself and what you are can only be described as limitless. Yet the word &#8220;limitless&#8221; is just a symbol and cannot represent the totality of what you are.</p>
<p>You exist beyond all existence. You cannot be separate from your Creator just as your creations cannot be separate from you.</p>
<h2>Author&#8217;s Notes</h2>
<p>I know. It got a little deep. Some may not even understand it right now.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s ok. </p>
<p>You will eventually. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve even made <a href="https://jclay.org/album/">this album</a> to help you along. </p>
<p>It takes you step-by-step through the undoing of false ideas you have of yourself so that you may tap into your limitless potential.</p>
<p>And best of all, you can chill out and vibe to it from start to finish.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s title <a href="https://jclay.org/album/">IAMNOBODY, IAMSOMEONE</a>.</p>
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<p>Death is one of those topics that's a hot button for many people. It seems to be inevitable to all, yet that doesn't make it hurt any less. This article touches that button so that it will no longer hurt at all. Let's get into it.</p>
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<p>Living in today&#8217;s world, death seems inescapable. Many have even accepted it for themselves and look forward to approaching that day at a future time.</p>
<p>However, many have not accepted it for their loved ones. When a death occurs, it can feel like nothing makes sense and that the world is unfair.</p>
<p>If you are a follower of this blog or my <a href="https://jclay.org/album/">music</a>, you know that I don&#8217;t believe in death in the way that many others do.</p>
<p>The intent of this article is not to change your beliefs regarding death. That&#8217;s what <a href="https://jclay.org/no-death/">There Is No Death, No Pain, and No Evil</a> is for.</p>
<p>This article is to show how you can be alright at this moment when the thoughts of loss seem too great.</p>
<p>There may be some things in this article that seem to strike a nerve, but continue to read it in its entirety. This will help you.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s get into the 5 ways to easily get over the death of a loved one.</p>
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<h2>1. It&#8217;s All About You</h2>
<p>This is going to come as a shocker, but know that I am saying this with love.</p>
<p><strong>When someone dies, it&#8217;s not about you.</strong></p>
<p>That person supposedly lost their life, but you didn&#8217;t lose anything.</p>
<p>So if you&#8217;re going to feel sad, don&#8217;t feel sad for yourself. You&#8217;re still here and get to live it up.</p>
<p>Instead, feel sad that they won&#8217;t get to live it up, which has nothing to do with you. And then, remember that you don&#8217;t need to feel sad at all.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not suggesting that you hold back your feelings. Let them out in a huge cry if you need to.</p>
<p>But then celebrate and honor your memory of them by feeling good that you crossed paths and that the best parts of them are with you always.</p>
<h2>2. A Loved One&#8217;s Purpose</h2>
<p>There is a belief that people exist in this world only for your will. I know, it&#8217;s a hidden belief. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f644.png" alt="🙄" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p>You lay claim to these people through your words, i.e. your friends, your family, your this, your that, etc.</p>
<p>Within this belief, you think you know what&#8217;s best for them all. You know their highest capabilities and even their incapabilities.</p>
<p>Additionally, you know that whenever you call them, it&#8217;s best for them to fulfill your request. That request could be to entertain you, make you feel better, be good company, whatever.</p>
<p>But do you really know this? Do you even know that you think you know this?</p>
<p>Everything and everyone that exists has a purpose or else they would not be here.</p>
<p>In terms of items, when you no longer have a purpose for one, you either throw it away or give it away to be repurposed.</p>
<p>Many of us still don&#8217;t even know our own purpose, let alone the purpose of another.</p>
<p><a href="https://jclay.org/gene-keys-review/">How To Discover Your Purpose</a></p>
<h3>What does this mean?</h3>
<p>When you perceive a person&#8217;s death, you don&#8217;t know if their purpose was fulfilled or not.</p>
<p>You also don&#8217;t know if the circumstances surrounding their death were a manifestation of their commonly repeated thoughts.</p>
<p>The person may have gotten exactly what he or she wanted out of life and was ready to transition to something else.</p>
<p>Again, you don&#8217;t know.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s no sense in being mad or sad over something that you don&#8217;t know.</p>
<p>Furthermore, for those that believe in God, as I do. Do you really believe that God&#8217;s Will could not be done? Trust It. Trust Him.</p>
<p>He knows what&#8217;s best for you and He wants to give it to you. But it&#8217;s hard to receive something when you&#8217;re denying it.</p>
<h2>3. Closing Off Yourself From New Experiences</h2>
<p>When you&#8217;re a kid, everything is exciting because it&#8217;s all-new.</p>
<p>Everything is also exciting because it stays new.</p>
<p>No moment is like the previous one nor do you try to make it that way.</p>
<p>But as you get older, you try to recreate past moments that you felt were great. You deny this moment in favor of one that already happened.</p>
<p>You no longer trust that exciting experiences will be brought to you so you invest in what could never be, the past.</p>
<p>When you live in the past, you try to hold on to everything and everyone exactly as they were in that moment.</p>
<p>Yet you know as well as anyone that people&#8217;s thoughts, feelings, and bodies change every second of the day.</p>
<p>This means that by holding on, you are essentially setting yourself up to remain disappointed at all times.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s almost like your thoughts of choice are, &#8220;<em>I want what I could never again have because I know everything about the world including that everything else would suck in comparison.</em>&#8221;</p>
<p>If your thoughts, feelings, and body is changing all the time, that means that what you would enjoy changes all the time as well. God and the universe are always wanting to give to you that which you would enjoy.</p>
<p>But by holding onto one tiny moment that happened infinity moments ago, you are choosing littleness instead of abundance.</p>
<p>In doing this, the only thing that can make you happy is that which could never be.</p>
<p>Let go of the past so that you can experience all that the present has to offer in its glory.</p>
<p>This is not to say to forget about your loved one. This is to say to live now for you both.</p>
<h2>4. Communicating with Your Loved One</h2>
<p>The loved one is still with you now. Who you are is a combination of yourself and their influences over you. So literally, you are no longer just yourself.</p>
<p>In addition to that, you can actually communicate with your loved ones now as if they are here because, in reality, they are.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how.</p>
<p>Sit in a comfortable position. Relax completely being fully grounded in the present. Feel your toes touch the floor or your shoes. Let go of any past thoughts or experiences. Make only this moment your focus.</p>
<p>Close your eyes and think of the love shared between you and your loved one. Now say what you would say to them either out loud or to yourself.</p>
<p>Listen to what you receive back from them. It may not be heard with the body&#8217;s ears, but it&#8217;s definitely felt.</p>
<p>You can do this any time of any day for any length of time. So have at it. Enjoy a full dialogue.</p>
<p>A quote from one of my favorite books <a href="https://jclay.org/acim-review/">A Course In Miracles (ACIM)</a> perfectly sums up why you are able to do this.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Nothing real can be threatened. Nothing unreal exists. Herein lies the peace of God.</em>&#8220;</p></blockquote>
<p>And in case you want a bible quote, check out Luke 20:38.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>He is not the God of the dead, but of the living, for to Him all are alive.</em>&#8220;</p></blockquote>
<h2>5. Holding Onto Form Weakens You</h2>
<p>As I mentioned above, you are choosing littleness instead of abundance.</p>
<p>You already accept that your thoughts, beliefs, and body are endlessly changing. And throughout all of these changes, you&#8217;ve still always been you.</p>
<p>So what version of your loved one are you trying to hold? And why would you want them to be stuck in a changeless form for your benefit?</p>
<p>There are so many people in your physical awareness right now that would love for you to enjoy them.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s impossible to experience both loss and abundance. Each denies the other and so only one can be true.</p>
<p>If loss was real, then you would be happy to receive it. However, since abundance is real, even the illusion of loss can be.</p>
<p>To believe that your loved ones are only a body is to believe that you are an insignificant speck incapable of anything real.</p>
<p>This is not true. You are the light of the world. Your rays extend beyond any and everything ever-flowing for eternity.</p>
<h2>In Conclusion</h2>
<p>In conclusion, your loved ones didn&#8217;t die. Only your perception of who they were, died.</p>
<p>Let go of this perception so that you can LIVE with them always.</p>
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<p>There's no doubt that the mind controls the body. We often look to physical aids to cure physical problems. But this does very little if the cause of the problem is never addressed. This article shows the scientific links between the leading causes of death and their mental counterparts. It also reiterates how important mental health is.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This article was written by JClay, the spiritual rapper and healer. Visit <a href="https://jclay.org">JClay</a> for more wisdom, music, and insights.</p>
<p>The body seems like a fickle master always changing what it wants and needs. You serve it proudly, but it betrays you when you need it most.</p>
<p>To add insult to injury, the body blames you for not adhering to its ever-changing laws and creeds. Then it withers away and dies as if that was always its purpose.</p>
<p>This sounds like an insane master.</p>
<p>What if the body was never meant to be a leader but a symbol of what its host&#8217;s mind <em>embodies</em>?</p>
<p>In the 17th century, Thomas Willis, M.D. hypothesized that diabetes was caused by &#8220;<em>sadness or long sorrow and other depressions.</em>&#8220;<sup>[<a href="https://catalyst.library.jhu.edu/catalog/bib_43414" target="_blank" rel="noopener">1</a>]</sup></p>
<p>This was followed up a couple of hundred years later by Sir Henry Maudsley that published &#8220;<a href="https://amzn.to/2QjTsQL" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Physiology and Pathology of Mind</a>&#8220;. In it, he said, &#8220;<em>Diabetes is a disease which often shows itself in families in which insanity prevails.</em>&#8221;</p>
<p>If a physical disease such as diabetes has strong ties to mental stability, do other illnesses share this trait? Is healing the body as simple as healing the mind?</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s explore!</p>
<h2>The supposed leading causes of death</h2>
<p><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/leading-causes-of-death.htm" target="_blank" rel="noopener">According to the CDC</a>, here are the top 10 leading causes of death in the United States in 2019.</p>
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<div data-pm-slice="1 1 []" data-en-clipboard="true">Intentional self-harm (suicide)</div>
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<p>Many expect COVID-19 to be added to that list when the 2020 numbers are released.</p>
<p>Both Alzheimer’s (6) and intentional self-harm (10) are already regarded as mental illnesses, but what about the rest?</p>
<p>Could all of these be cured with a wellness mindset?</p>
<h2>A Sad Heart</h2>
<p>Have you ever thought about why being depressed is often referred to as having a sad heart?</p>
<p>Yes, you have a physical heart. Yet, this saying refers to thoughts and feelings of sorrow, not that of physical chest pain.</p>
<p>One <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3462815/pdf/nihms396604.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">study conducted by John Hopkins University</a> on nearly 7,000 U.S. adults concluded that women aged 17 to 39 with depression had a significantly higher risk of ischemic heart disease death.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>ischemia</strong> &#8211; an inadequate blood supply to an organ or part of the body, especially the heart muscles</em></p>
<p>These findings are backed by <a href="https://www.ahajournals.org/doi/full/10.1161/jaha.113.000741" target="_blank" rel="noopener">another study</a> conducted by the American Heart Association that found that young women are twice as likely to suffer a heart attack or die of heart disease if they suffer from depression.</p>
<p>Men are not exempt.</p>
<p>The European Society of Cardiology recently <a href="https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/08/200826083017.htm" target="_blank" rel="noopener">published the findings</a> of a Swedish study outlining how men diagnosed with anxiety in their late teens or early 20s are more than twice as likely to have heart-related diseases later in life in comparison to their more laid-back peers.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s more to mental wellness than meets the eye.</p>
<h2>Cancer</h2>
<p>Funds available to the National Cancer Institute in 2018 totaled <strong>$5.94 billion</strong>!<sup>[<a href="https://www.cancer.gov/about-nci/budget/fact-book/data/research-funding#:~:text=The%20FY%202018%20funds%20available,from%20the%20previous%20fiscal%20year." target="_blank" rel="noopener">2</a>] </sup>This is a 5% increase from the previous fiscal year.</p>
<p>Obviously, people are serious about curing cancer.</p>
<p>From these dollars have come such studies as <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32496507/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">this one</a>, which showed that cancer patients can live longer lives by getting mental health treatment.</p>
<p>There is also a growing belief that cancer is directly related to feelings of unforgiveness.</p>
<p>Dr. Michael Barry, author of the book <a href="https://amzn.to/3vDnnmV" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Forgiveness Project</a> estimates that 61% of cancer patients have forgiveness issues. &#8220;<em>Harboring these negative emotions, this anger and hatred, creates a state of chronic anxiety</em>&#8221; Dr. Barry explains.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">You may also like: <a href="https://jclay.org/understanding-forgiveness/">It’s Not Hard To Forgive, It’s Hard To Keep Lying To Yourself About It</a></p>
<h2>The Mind-Body Connection</h2>
<p>There have been similar findings with stroke victims and Alzheimer&#8217;s patients.</p>
<p>One <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3226076/">study</a> by the American Stroke Association found that higher levels of optimism in stroke survivors were associated with reduced stroke severity.</p>
<p><a href="https://alz-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/alz.12116" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Another</a> by the Alzheimers&#8217;s Association found a link between repetitive negative thinking and Alzheimer&#8217;s disease.</p>
<p>The mind-body connection is one that has been explored since the beginning of mankind.</p>
<p>Many believe that we are spiritual beings having a temporary human experience, so the body is of no consequence.</p>
<p>Even those that have died and been resuscitated support this theory by expressing that they felt immense peace and unconditional love while wrapped in an endless sea of light absent a body.</p>
<p>So can all illness be healed through the mind?</p>
<p>Is mental wellness the most important thing for this seemingly physical experience?</p>
<h2>How To Ensure Mental Well-Being</h2>
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<p>There are many ways to secure and maintain mental wellness.</p>
<p>One super effective way is music. It&#8217;s meditation, visualization, and affirmations all rolled into one.</p>
<p>Studies have shown that patients who listened to music had less anxiety and stress hormones in the body than people who took drugs.</p>
<p>When listening to music, your mind goes to another place (meditation). You can feel and imagine what the song invokes (visualization). When you listen, you sing or chant along (affirmations) with full confidence.</p>
<p>This is why it is also important to choose the music you listen to wisely.</p>
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